(Closed) What do you wish your mom would have taught/told you?

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Post # 3
749 posts
Busy bee
  • Wedding: June 2013

I wish my mom would have taught me to cook… that is one of the things i struggle wiith being a newlywed. 

And not necesarily my mom, but i wish someone would have taught me how to study… i still dont know a great way to retain information other than repetitive reading..


Post # 4
1460 posts
Bumble bee

I wish my mom would have taught me the importance of eating healthy. I was raised pretty laissez-faire in that regard…after age like 6 if I didn’t want the healthy dinner options, I was totally able to go house a bag of doritoes or skip meals instead lol. Now I have all kinds of weird food addictions and deficiencies that have been really hard to shake and I think it all could have been avoided if healthier eating habits had been established when I was young.


Post # 5
9682 posts
Buzzing Beekeeper


Although I’m not sure that is a virtue that can be taught, lol.

Post # 6
4606 posts
Honey bee
  • Wedding: March 2014

I wish my mom would have taught me her organizational skills. Either her or my dad. 

We had bi yearly cleaning sprees at my house when I was a kid, so I learned how to get rid of things but not how to keep things organized. It’s been really annoying at times for FH, because he’s super organized and I’m lucky if I can keep the sock drawer organized. 

Post # 7
4525 posts
Honey bee
  • Wedding: April 2015

I wish either parent had taught me more about managing money

Post # 8
596 posts
Busy bee
  • Wedding: July 2014

I wish she taught me about eating healthy and exercising. It was NEVER addressed in my house. We also come from a culture where carbs are a staple – my body can’t process carbs like normal people – and I didn’t figure this out till an endocrinologist told me in my early 20s. Would have been helpful to get into a good routine earlier.

I also wish she taught me about saving money. It’s not her fault – we always lived paycheck to paycheck growing up- so now that I have a grown up job, I had no idea what an IRA vs 401k etc was all about and what was a good choice for me.

Other than that, ma did a great job. She was a single mom, only 20 years older than me – and she worked with what she had.

@gemchick82:  My mom only wore heels in high school – I have NEVER seen her in a pair of heels. She also didn’t really wear makeup until I got into it, bought it for her, and showed her how to apply it! It would have been nice having someone to teach me when I was younger.

Post # 9
458 posts
Helper bee
  • Wedding: September 2014

cooking and eating healthy. i grew up pretty much solely on boxed mac and cheese, tv dinners and pizza. 

Post # 10
708 posts
Busy bee
  • Wedding: May 2015

Managing money (my parents are pretty well-off and thus, never really had to worry about it) and cleaning. I am a pretty good cleaner, but my mom puts even the best to shame.

Post # 11
731 posts
Busy bee
  • Wedding: September 2012

@gemchick82:  I read the title and instantly thought how to apply makeup. She never talked to me about that, and she wears a pretty large amount every day.

On another note, I sometimes wish my father would have taught me how to drive and not my mom. She is very impatient and aggressive and it rubbed off on me where as my dad is very calm and mellow while driving.

Post # 12
11752 posts
Sugar Beekeeper
  • Wedding: November 1999

How to cook! Though, she can’t really cook either so not sure how that ever would have happened.

Post # 13
1586 posts
Bumble bee
  • Wedding: October 2013

How to be a girl. I’m 28 and I still have no idea how to put together an outfit, how to layer clothing, how to walk in heels, how to properly blowdry/straighten/style my hair, or how to apply makeup.


I’m not a tomboy, I’m a huge nerdy girl. I just look like a tomboy in jeans and t-shirts because I don’t know how to do it any other way.


On the other hand, reading this thread I think I did well. My mother isn’t a girly girl either, but she is an amazing woman who taught me how to be a pretty damned awesome person.

Post # 14
2090 posts
Buzzing bee
  • Wedding: October 2014

I wish I had been taught how to ride a bike (I know, it’s embarrassing) and how to walk in heels, I still walk like bambi

Post # 15
12248 posts
Sugar Beekeeper
  • Wedding: May 2013

I feel like my Mom was really bad at the stuff she didn’t try to teach me!

Like she didn’t wear heels or make up, and she’s a pretty basic cook (I grew up on pasta and still consider cereal an acceptable dinner food).

But she taught us about money, how to keep a home, and how to take care of babies! And that’s my Mom’s thing. (Though having a Stay-At-Home Mom that can barely cook was funny/bizarre)

Post # 16
2551 posts
Sugar bee
  • Wedding: July 2013

My mom never left the house without makeup, ever. She would wake up at 5am just to have enough time to do her makeup & hair before she took us to school. She was amazing & teaching me confidence & self-esteem but I def. picked up on the whole never leaving the house without makeup thing too. I wish she had told me that not wearing makeup is ok and in most cases will actually clear up your skin alot quicker. Also, that self-esteem should be more than skin-deep…. 

My mom bakes really well, but cooking is not her forte. She used to make frozen foods all the time, so I really wish she had taught us more about healthy eating. It was hard as an adult to try to figure out how to cook fresh foods because she mostly made frozen/boxed/canned foods. Also, the importance of exercise on your entire body- she would exercise when she felt she didn’t look good enough- not because she should and it makes her healthier. 

I also REALLY wish she had taught me the importance of listening & tuning into my own body. We talked about periods but she never really told me that if I paid enough attention I would start to know my pre-period symptoms, how my body reacts to certain things, and be able to better understand what was going on with my body as well as predict when my period would arrive & why I was being so catty… 

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