What does he mean by this…

posted 2 months ago in Relationships
Post # 46
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Bumble bee
  • Wedding: October 2019

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londongirl1988 :  as nice as it is to pretend that women and men are the same and have the same attitudes about sex, they don’t. Men often are ready for sex before the woman. 

So you trying to get us to see things in a different light by simply saying, well If roles were reversed and a man posted this blah blah blah… that doesn’t work. It’s a nice thought but no. 

Post # 47
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Bumble bee
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teamroro :  Her ignoring all the advice she was given to update us that she got asked to a Valentine’s Day date? Something tells me she doesn’t care about any red flags, or doing her due dilligence. But this all makes much more sense now that it’s clear OP must also have some issues if she is continuing to stampede into this without any thought to it.

Hope this works our for her but it’s clear she doesn’t want advice she wants to have somewhere to giggle and post her “eeekk he asked me on another date” updates. 

Post # 48
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Helper bee
  • Wedding: November 2020

I can’t believe you perceive this as a red flag girl, to me it’s a sign of a very decent guy. The only thing I don’t like is that he is scared that you have your shit together. Now this is weird. I prefer very confident guys and to me he comes across a little bit on a weak side but I do like that he is not rushing into sex. My husband and I also waited.

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Buzzing Beekeeper

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tess90 :  

l think it is the combination of no sex plus fearing her success that worries me. My prediction is that it’s going to be an ED low libido issue and/ or some problem he has with women generally.

lf it was just the ‘no sex yet’ thing l would be much less concerned, esp if OP is not too horny herself.

Did he say OP was ‘not like other women’ ? Don’t like that At All. Men who say that kind of thing don’t actually like women, but they need to justify being with them  by telling her she’s different ( subtext, from all those other bitches out there ). 

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searchinblonde321 :  

l just re-read the he wants ‘you to fall in love with him ‘ thing. Hmm, does he now? No mention of him falling in love with you , just that sex might ruin you doing the falling. 
My concern is heightened by this. 

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