- 9 years ago
- Wedding: June 2010
So last night we got into a fight.
It started as a good day and then a few things happened (minor to me) that made him fly off the handle…..
when i helped him carry the picnic table i slipped off the concrete and dropped it which hurt his fingers really bad, then he saw tire tracks in our front yard which means someone drove thru (who cares) and then my mom picked up a suit for our ring bearer instead of having to blow 150 bux on a tux for our wedding for a 3 year old.
I am certain it was a fight stemming from him losing his job and now unemployment is being fought so he is bringing in ZERO dollars and the only income is my unemployment.
So he went to take his girls home last night at 730 and he didnt come home until 9. He never called and didnt tell me he was planning to stop anywhere else.
I didnt talk to him til about 1030 when i noticed he was laying on the couch with a blanket so i asked if he was planning to sleep there and he said he didnt know
I mentioned that he was gone long enough to figure it out, he said he went to his dads, which i dont doubt.
So heres what we said…. While arguing and him being totally crappy to me and himmaking this all my fault, he said “well if you dont like it, then do something about it”
What? What does he want me to do? Break up with him, call of the wedding, walk away?
Then as the arguing continued he said if i dont leave him alone and let him go to sleep he was going to leave. I am confused with all this. Does he want something to happen and i am suppose to read between the lines?
He left this AM to do a side job and never said good bye or anything so i called and he was still in a bad mood and said he is just frustrated etc….He said he is unhappy about everything. Feeling a bit insecure I asked him if this was a fight that we would make it thru or if were throwing in the towel and he said he doenst know. All this uncertainty is killing me!!!
I hate that weve been fighting lately, its making me feel insecure. I called our preacher today and set up our counseling and i plan to bring this up. He is all about meeting with our preacher and he is looking forward to counseling, he loves our preacher!
Is it me taking his stress personally? What did he mean by the comment?? Am I over reacting??