(Closed) What drives you crazy about your significant other?

posted 11 years ago in Relationships
Post # 77
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Blushing bee
  • Wedding: May 2010

This is great! I hate to say it but I have a few things but at the top of the list is OMG he eats soooo fast, I hate it, it’s crazy, he eats as if it’s his last meal and he’s not even overweight in the least he is in very good shape, I just dont get it. The others would be he is pretty messy and leaves his stuff everywhere, and he never shuts cupboards or turns lights OFF!!! ugghh 

Post # 78
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Blushing bee
  • Wedding: May 2010

Oh and the best one, I almost forgot! He makes this crazy noise, almost sounds like he’s gonna spit but he says he’s just itching his throat (allergies) LOL so weird!

Post # 79
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Helper bee
  • Wedding: August 2011

BOY did you open up a can of worms with this one! =)

Well, just to name a few,

-He drops his shoes, shirts, and yes, sometimes even underwear, in the middle of the living room after a long day at work.

-He argues with me about stuff he doesn’t know he’s doing in his sleep (Like snoring or kicking me – he’ll say “no, I didn’t do that.” UM YOU WERE SLEEPING – how do you know?!)

-He’s obsessed with non-running vehicles which are taking up precious driveway, curb, and garage/shop room!

But, even though he drives me bonkers sometimes, I still love him and can’t wait to make things official in marriage! (I’m sure there’s a laundry list of things about me that drive him nuts!)

Post # 80
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Worker bee
  • Wedding: October 2010

My FH takes an hour bath…. every single day. WHY?!?! It wastes so much time, but he loves to just relax in the water and play on his iphone. Things are going to change when we get married… LOL

Post # 81
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804 posts
Busy bee
  • Wedding: May 2020

1. worships his mom.

2. would rather keep sniffing his nose than blow it.

3. thinks his dad was perfect, even though he was a huge a#@!

Post # 82
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Blushing bee
  • Wedding: May 2010

1. he likes to snuggle a little too close when we are going to bed. I’m all about snuggling while we are watching TV and stuff, but when it is time for bed I need my space!

2. He always leaves my lap top unplugged so by the time I get to it, it is out of batteries

3. He leaves his shoes EVERYWHERE and is absolutely uncapable of putting things away, closing kitchen cabinents or folding laundry

4. When he gets in the mood for some lovin, he starts to talk in what I can only describe as some form of baby-talk! He’s 99% joking when he does it, but it is super annoying nonetheless!

Hmmm… that seems like a lot… but trust me, if it were a list of things that I love about him the list would go on and on and on and on and on and on! 😉

 

 

 

Post # 83
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Bumble bee

I don’t know that it drives me crazy, maybe it’s more of a waiting sort of thing, but he talks about how he needs to be kicked in the butt to do some things. 

And I only kick butt when I’m angry.

Post # 84
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Helper bee
  • Wedding: August 2009

That he eats literally an entire bottle of ketchup with every meal!! Whenever we eat fajitas at mexican restaurants he asks for ketchup – it is soo embarrassing! And the house always reaks of ketchup, ick.

That he doesn’t appreciate music. He likes whatever Top 40 songs are current on the radio.. and it DRIVES ME NUTS. How can you be a 30 year-old male and classify Avril Lavigne as your favorite singer? I JUST DON’T GET IT. I am huge music fan and have it on whenever possible and he could care less if he never had to listen to music again.

That he has to watch Seinfeld every night in bed. Seinfeld is on a constant loop and I am beginning to wonder if I will be watching Seinfeld re-runs until I am 70. I have been with him 3 years and he said he was even watching Seinfeld in bed every night many years before I came around. ????

Post # 85
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Sugar Beekeeper
  • Wedding: February 2011

I have a new one! Well not new… just remembered. Fiance has no commitment to watching shows. If he isn’t with me he doesn’t remember to watch them even if I remind him (shows like top chef, greys anatomy, etc). Then when we’re at my house he wants to watch them (even when I offer to just watch them off tivo later)… and he asks me 3422352 questions. Every 2 minutes. I don’t mind a few. But an every two minutes “wait who is she? where did he come from? woah are they sleeping together? what is that all about?” 

Hopefully this will get better when we live together and he watches what I watch!

Post # 86
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Buzzing bee
  • Wedding: April 2011

He’s. Always. Late.

He won’t just be a little bit late, either. He will be hours late. And he won’t call, because he’s used to being a bachelor and not having anyone at home sitting around thinking “Hmmmm, I wonder if my boyfriend is dead on the highway somewhere?” Or “Gee, it’s too bad my grandmother made this nice dinner for everyone and I sat around waiting to eat with him but he never showed up so now I get to eat a cold meal alone!”

*eye twitch*

And if I say something or make fun of his lateness, he gets incredibly defensive. Look, if you don’t want me to draw attention to it, COMMUNICATE WITH ME. Agh!

Other than that though, no problems! 😛

Post # 87
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Sugar Beekeeper
  • Wedding: February 2011

@minutiea- omg that would drive me NUTS. Lateness is probably one of my all-time top pet peeves though. I feel like when people are late they’re saying “my time is more important than your time and you can just sit around and wait for me” arghhhhhhhh. my fi knows, if he is going to be more than 5-10 min late, CALL ME unless you want a storm brewing haha. But, we each have our “things” 🙂

Post # 89
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Newbee

His friends!  I mean it.  I only like 2 out of the many he has.  And he does have a lot.

He never answers the phone when I call, but when we are together he gets tons of calls and answers most of them untill I say something.

His eating manners, that is, he has none.

It may sound like I don’t like much,  but it works and I love him!

Post # 90
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Helper bee
  • Wedding: October 2010

What I don’t like about mine? His family. LOL. And I’m not kidding. They’re annoying. I just learn to deal with them because they’ll be in my life, forever, for better or worse. Oh, and I also can’t stand that he enjoys unhealthy drinks like Pepsi. I find Pepsi disgusting!

Post # 91
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Newbee

1.When we go out out, he unbuttons one too many buttons of his shirt…ha! I guess he thinks he is sexy this way…I’m still trying to figure out how to tell him without hurting his feelings that it is a bit much.

2. The way he calls the waiter when we are out at dinner. He raises his voice pretty loudly and calls the waiter by saying “My Chef”, in Turkish. It’s kind of a cheesy way of signalling a waiter. Ugh. I wish he would just say the normal, “excuse me” as the waiter is close to our table. Again, trying to figure out the best way to teach him without making it sound like he sometimes lacks the proper etiquette. 

BUT that being said, he can keep on leaving his shirt unbuttoned like that, or calling the waiter Chef all he wants because, to me, he is perfect perfect perfect and I wouldn’t want him any other way Laughing

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