- 9 years ago
- Wedding: July 2012
I had my colors and pretty much all of my decor picked out, though nothing bought yet, Now my Fiance is telling me that he actually doesn’t like the colors (poppy, mint and blush). He said the mint reminds him of an old lady. When I said “well, yeah, it’s vintage, like our wedding” he was like “why would our wedding be vintage?””. I had thought when we chose to have a barn wedding, it was obviously going to be vintage/rustic/DIY (we don’t have enough money to do elegant-barn). Or when I showed him my inspiration board. Or when I explained why I wanted mis-matched Bridesmaid or Best Man dresses. But I guess not. So now I need all new colors and, even worse, a totally new plan for the decor. But what other options do I have for a barn? I mean, modern isn’t really going to work. And we need to make a lot of the decorations, so how can I make it anything but rough around the edges? Not to mention, I’m in love with the wedding I already have planned! Ugh.
PS I’ve been engaged for about a month and I’ve already written on here in exasperation three times. Is that normal?