(Closed) What fears you the most that could happen on your wedding day?

posted 8 years ago in Emotional
Post # 3
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Bumble bee
  • Wedding: June 2010

That my sister will be high as a kite and cause a ruckus. You were probably looking for something lighter, like a broken dress zipper, but really, I just wanted my sister to have it together for ONE DAY! Aside from her – a more trivial worry is that my acne will flare up and I will have to do a major makeup job to have a flawless face.

Post # 4
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Worker bee
  • Wedding: December 2010

My grandmother being there. I know that sounds terrible, but she’s mentally ill, manipulative, verbally abusive, and cruel. She will throw one of her trademark screaming tantrums in front of The Boy’s prim-and-proper family; I just know it.

Nobody wants her there, not even Mom, but she says we HAVE to invite the GrandMonster…

Post # 5
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Worker bee
  • Wedding: July 2010

I perfect ‘Worry Wart’ like it’s no one’s business.  So I have a laundry list of worries about my wedding day:

– Me passing out at the altar… in front of everyone.

– Me barfing at the altar… in front of everyone.

– Fiance passing out/barfing at the altar… in front of everyone.

– Me tripping as I walk down the aisle.

– Family drama- when alcohol is in the mix, you never can tell what could happen (fist fights?  verbal altercations?  oh gawd…).

– A guest or loved one getting hurt or becoming sick during the course of the night.  

– Getting my period on my wedding day and dealing with the crampy, bloaty feeling involved with it.

– Me getting sick with some horrid illness on my wedding day.  Same fear for Fiance.

– Ceremony music not playing correct.

Um… I could go on.  But perhaps I should stop as I’m freaking myself out even more.  Sealed

Post # 6
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Busy bee
  • Wedding: December 1969

1. My Future Father-In-Law can’t really speak English, but the more he drinks, the more he believes in his skills.  I fear that he might harass people with bizarre, barely comprehensible questions if he drinks a lot.

2. That my Fiance and his parents, who are flying in just before the wedding, have flight delays or cancelations.

3. That I will get the mother of all cold sores just in time for the wedding.

Post # 7
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Newbee
  • Wedding: December 1969

That his ex will somehow find out where we’re getting married and come bursting through the doors at either the reception, the ceremony or both. This is why I really want to get married in Vegas and then return here for a reception.

Post # 8
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Buzzing bee
  • Wedding: June 2010 - Tannery Pond at the Darrow School

I worry that no one will be dancing and the party will fall flat…Yikes!

Post # 9
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Bumble Beekeeper

@trailmix – I worry about that too. So much so that we might not have a dancing reception 🙁

Post # 10
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Bee Keeper
  • Wedding: May 2010

All the kids acting up 🙁 I love them very much but didn’t want them at the wedding. Since they’re all nieces/nephews (and not like cousins or friends kids) we didn’t have a choice, their parents are all in the wedding. I’m trying to avoid a birthday party scene by setting up a separate kids room, but I don’t know how it’s going to work out :(.

Post # 11
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Buzzing bee
  • Wedding: April 2011

I’m not worried about the guests or having a great party…I’m mostly concerned about the vendors! Give people a little bit of power and they’ll walk all over you. I can see it now: the photographer ignores my requests and takes (bad) pictures of me while I’m dressing, the flowers are basketball bouquets with calla lilies and roses and all the other things I don’t want, none of the food turns out well…ugh. Can I just do everything by myself? Pleaaaaase?

Post # 12
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Bumble bee
  • Wedding: June 2010

That I will be sick with a cold or flu. UGH, can you imagine???

Post # 14
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Blushing bee
  • Wedding: May 2010

I worry that I’ll get a migraine 🙁 Or have stomach problems (I have a nervous tummy). And like others, I worry that no one will dance.

Post # 15
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Worker bee

That on the day of my wedding, everyone will just not want to come celebrate with us…

Post # 16
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Sugar bee
  • Wedding: November 2009

Yes! I feared that NO ONE would show up, that I would get the flu that day or the day before, that I would be too busy throwing up (from nerves) to walk down the aisle…. None of those things happened, of course. But I made myself a wreck worrying about them.

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