(Closed) What has your SO done lately that REALLY helped you out?

posted 6 years ago in Relationships
Post # 32
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Worker bee
  • Wedding: July 2015

He makes my lunch in the morning while I am getting ready and will put a note with my lunch;)

Will do the grocery shopping, does the dishes, just did the brakes on my car, and he surprised me with a pair of shoes he knew I had my eyes on!

love him to pieces! I can’t wait to be married to him. Big strong man, that can cook, clean, fix our cars. Dream come true. To top it off watched say yes to the dress with me last week!

Post # 33
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Buzzing bee
  • Wedding: July 2012

While this isn’t so much a PHYSICAL thing that helped me out he did something that helped me out mentally.

I am miserable at work, to the point where I come home crying. Two days ago Darling Husband let me vent on the bed and cry while he cuddled me and tickled my arm.

And then yesterday he told me that if I really needed to quit that I could.

Honestly, just knowing he was okay with that option has given me so much peace of mind. I am going to try to hang in there, but its nice knowing I don’t have to take the BS if it gets to be too much.

Post # 34
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Helper bee
  • Wedding: July 2014

he does small things all the time to help me. most recently, with the freezing temps and snow we’ve been having, he’s been cleaning my car off, turning it on to warm up, and shoveling and salting a path for me so i don’t slip and fall. angel!

Post # 35
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Blushing bee

Why he is wonderful {Part 2}:

He knows I hate to drive and will take time off from work when I have to see my drs. {and I see two specialists twice a month}.

Post # 36
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Bumble bee
  • Wedding: June 2013

What HASN’T my Darling Husband done for me in the past week??   Made me breakfast, made me dinner, made me lunch, brought me wine, cleaned up for me, cleaned up after me, drove when I was tired, drove me to the bank, got me special drinks just because, takes my cat inside because I’m too tired, goes to the grocery store for me, carries everything inside for me… all the little things while I’m working and grumpy. He even doesn’t mind that I post here (or weddingpostingsh*t.com as he calls it).

 

I love my husband.  Seriously he is the best!!

Post # 37
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Helper bee
  • Wedding: June 2014

@CookieCharmer:  aww my Fiance wiill do that  toowhen he is home, except we  don’t have a snow blower. God love him. when he’s offshore though, it’s all me .hoping we don’t get the snow and rain they are calling for friday :S

Post # 38
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Blushing bee

He cleaned out and fixed a part of my car’s engine that caused it to not start a few days ago, after having already worked 10hrs that day. <3 my mechanic Fiance. 

Post # 40
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Buzzing bee
  • Wedding: April 2015

I had my wisdom teeth removed three weeks ago and I was very much out of it for a whole week. I got a nasty infection a few days post-op and I was in a ton of pain due to an abscess. He waited on me hand and foot for that whole week. I didn’t have to worry about anything. I was so impressed and I think I fell even more in love with him because he took such great care of me. I didn’t ask for it – he just did it.

Post # 42
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Worker bee
  • Wedding: April 2014

He brought me a chocolate milkshake on the first day of my period. This helped me a LOT 🙂

Post # 43
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Sugar bee
  • Wedding: October 2010

I had a very bad day yesterday. I struggle with Complex PTSD and sometimes I have days when all the terrible memories hit me without warning. I cried before work and blinked back tears all day. 

When I came home, my husband took me into his arms while we lay in bed. He rubbed my back and said “Go ahead and cry love. You’re safe here. Please stop holding it in or else you will get depressed.”

So I wept so hard on my husband’s chest. He had to take his shirt off because I wet it with my tears. It felt wonderful to be able to release everything. I love being with a man that I can be weak with. I am slowly learning to trust my husband and let him in. 

Post # 44
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Sugar bee
  • Wedding: October 2010

@laurabora:  

That sounds wonderful! Every woman loves sweet treats during that time.

Post # 45
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Bumble bee
  • Wedding: August 2014

Our poor furbaby is sick, so Fiance boiled rice and chicken for her this evening.  And he rarely cooks!  

Post # 46
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Bumble bee
  • Wedding: August 2014

@PositiveThinking:  so sorry you’re going through a rough time!  Your Darling Husband sounds like a wonderful man, glad he’s being so supportive.

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