What I wish someone told me as a Waiting Bee.

posted 4 weeks ago in Waiting
Post # 2
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400 posts
Helper bee
  • Wedding: May 2015

daisymaewaiting :  This is so refreshing to hear. I am married now and have a daughter, but I understand those moments of uncertainty and frustration. I think at the end of the day, no one knows your relationship better than you, so kudos for sticking with it and having the happy ending you deserve. Advice is just advice, you can’t let it determine your fate, but take it for what it is and just do what you feel is right. Hopefully your message will resonate with others. 

Post # 3
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277 posts
Helper bee

Thank you for sharing your story, I’m sure it will help others here, and many congratulations!

Post # 6
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37 posts
Newbee

Congratulations!

Your story is very different from mine but it’s reassuring. However, my boyfriend does not believe in marriage so I’m stuck. Can’t seem to convince him either.

Post # 7
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272 posts
Helper bee

I’m sorry that you had such a rough first year of engagement! So happy for you that things are on the right track now and you and your fiancé are both happy. It is hard when you’re waiting and to go through this after the waiting period has ended must have been tough! 

Good luck to you both and I wish you a long and happy marriage!

Post # 8
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Wannabee

Wow, I believe I was meant to read this today. I am waiting, he has told me that he knows I am his wife, he’s even asking questions rooted around marriage, pricing and budgeting, asking what our first move should be after we get married and willing to see a couples counselor with me. But, he is still holding back. Something is holding him back and he says it is fear, fear that he will leave me and he doesn’t believe in divorce, fear that he may get bored, etc. We’re trying to work through these mental notions I know all things won’t be solved in a short time frame but the fact that he is showing me changes and opening up means so much to me. He says he wants to be married by 35 which is next year, and I told him I want to be married by next year as well. We are best friends and we both can’t see our lives without each other, please pray for us, Crystal and Jeffrey.

 

Thank you for sharing your inspirational message

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