(Closed) What ia that one thing that your FI/FH/BF/SO would change about you?

posted 5 years ago in Relationships
  • poll: Would you like to know what your SO would change about you?
    Yes. : (27 votes)
    33 %
    No. : (13 votes)
    16 %
    Only if those are things I can change. : (43 votes)
    52 %
  • Post # 3
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    Sugar bee
    • Wedding: February 1998

    He would definitely want me to be better at dealing with stress. I get overwhelmed easily and I’m over sensitive . I don’t think their is much else he’s forever telling me that he is lucky to have me ahhh love him so much:)

    Post # 4
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    447 posts
    Helper bee
    • Wedding: October 2014 - Ranch

    I have gained 50lbs in the course of our 9-Year relationship, and even though he says he isn’t bothered by it, I am sure he would love it if I lost it. I am working on it! 

    He would also change that I buy everything I see and love. He is definitely the money smart one in the relationship. I am also working on it. 

    I will ask him tonight and come back with some of this answers 🙂 

    Post # 5
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    1211 posts
    Bumble bee
    • Wedding: September 2014

    He would never say it, but I think he would change my weight. I’ve gained about 30 pounds since we started dating. I think a great deal of it comes from the fact that I’m less happy at this size.

    I also think he’d change how emotional I am… I get my feelings hurt too easily. 

    Post # 6
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    Honey bee
    • Wedding: October 2013

    He would make me more of a cuddler! He’s definitely more the touchy-feely one in our relationship, and I only take it in small doses.

    Post # 7
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    Sugar bee
    • Wedding: September 2013

    He would probably make me less emotional and “touchy.” Tears are my reaction to every human emotion, lol. Happy? Cry. Sad? Cry. Scared? Cry. It’s really a mess and I admire Fiance for handling with such aplomb.

    Post # 8
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    6360 posts
    Bee Keeper

    I asked him and he said “no hair on your legs so you don’t have to be bothered.”

    LOL! out of all the things I was imagining…. I didn’t expect that one.

    Post # 9
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    Busy Beekeeper
    • Wedding: November 1999

    My attitude sucks at times because I can be very abrupt at times. Im sure thats the #1 thing he’d appreciate. 

    Post # 10
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    8696 posts
    Bumble Beekeeper
    • Wedding: September 2013

    He would want me to not be so snappy sometimes. Also, he says I spend too much money shopping.

    Post # 11
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    Bumble Beekeeper
    • Wedding: April 2013

    I asked my Fiance what he would change about me and he said that I need to learn to share my desserts and soda.  He’s totally right though, I always drink all the soda.  Not sharing dessert really depends on the dessert though, if it’s something I really like, he’s probably not getting more than two or three bites lol.

    Post # 12
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    Blushing bee
    • Wedding: June 2013

    I actually asked this question once.  Answer: “I wish you weren’t in pain all the time.”

    Can’t fix it, but it’s nice of my Fiance to say it, and far better than some other things people have wished they could change about me.

    Post # 13
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    Bumble Beekeeper
    • Wedding: April 2014

    @SuspiciousCoconut:  Similar to what my Fiance said! I have chronic migraines plus sciatica, so not a day goes by that I dont have to take a pain pill for something.

    What he wont say, but that I believe he would change, is how quickly I can go from 0 to 10. I get my feelings hurt by the smallest things some times and I lash out, when I should just take a step back and have a good breather.

    Post # 14
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    Buzzing bee
    • Wedding: May 2014

    @MsMonkey:  +1 on the too emotional thing. I think SO would change that about me too. I have gained ten pounds since we met but he wouldn’t change that about me because he told me once he thought I was a little underweight when he first laid eyes on me. 

    Post # 15
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    Worker bee
    • Wedding: August 2013

    I know he would wish that i was less messy!

    Post # 16
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    Bumble bee
    • Wedding: June 2013

    @vitaminshake:  I already know he would change my worry wart ways. I tend to let the what ifs bother me and he’s always trying to talk me out of worrying and getting upset. He’d probably also change the fact that I’m easily irritated ESPECIALLY around that time of the month. 

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