(Closed) What if he slept in a bed with another woman?

posted 7 years ago in 30 Something
Post # 3
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Bumble bee
  • Wedding: May 2012

NO. It’s that simple. He can sleep with the guys for the rest of his days, since I will not.

Post # 4
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Bee Keeper
  • Wedding: December 2010

He would need to have my foot surgically removed from his ass.

Post # 5
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Helper bee
  • Wedding: September 2011

I would definitely NOT be happy with that! Can you explain the circumstance though, where that might happen? My guy is way past his days of sleepover parties! 🙂

Post # 6
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Honey bee
  • Wedding: October 2010

@Linz1231: Ditto. 

He’s a married man. It is not okay for him to share a bed with any other woman, I don’t care who she is. 

Post # 7
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Helper bee
  • Wedding: August 2011

Laugh at the situation and not worry about it any more.  I would expect Fiance to be okay if I slept in a bed with a guy who was “just one of the girls” if you know what I mean.

Post # 8
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Buzzing bee
  • Wedding: March 2012

I think it depends on the circumstance and who its with. Fiance and I have a really close group of friends. If we were having a house party or something and we crashed in a bed with one of them neither of us would have a problem with it. But outside of that group I would not be cool with it. My guess is if you’re asking though it was inappropriate

Post # 9
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Busy bee
  • Wedding: November 2011

Maybe it would be ok if she was like 1 of 5 people that passed out drunk and fully clothed on a bed… but wait, college is long over…   

Post # 10
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Buzzing bee
  • Wedding: July 2011

I’d be fine with it. 

Post # 11
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Bee Keeper
  • Wedding: December 2010

Honestly, I can’t think of a single scenario that doesn’t end with a bloody, violent death.

Post # 11
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Bumble bee
  • Wedding: September 2013

Hell to the no.

Post # 12
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Buzzing bee
  • Wedding: July 2011

@msgraphics: College is a state of mind. I don’t wanna grow up.

Post # 13
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Blushing bee
  • Wedding: October 2011

I’m assuming you weren’t enlightened until after the fact?

My Fiance and I are in graduate school aka we’re poor so when he’s wanted to go to a workshop in Florida with 3 other students (total 3 guys, one girl who I’m super close too) I told him he could share a bed with her so neither of them felt obligated to sleep on the floor for a week.

When one of my besties got married my guy was gone on a research boat. My other BFF also couldn’t attend due to a conflict with a conference and only her guy could go. I shared a room and slept in the same bed with her boyfriend but of course, I asked my guy and my friend.

These are all mutual friends of both me and my Fiance. If it was a girl I didn’t know I’d be peeved but in these cases we both agreed beforehand that it was totally cool.

Post # 14
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Helper bee
  • Wedding: November 2011

Depends on the circumstances, but bottom line, I trust my partner.  If he thinks it is ok, then I’m (probably – like I said, depends on the circumstances to a certain extent) ok with his choices.

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