(Closed) What in the world?!?!?

posted 8 years ago in Waiting
Post # 3
1871 posts
Buzzing bee
  • Wedding: February 2011

I think….that your guy has practicality on the mind before romance.

Kind of sweet, actually–I’d much prefer a guy actually go through the moves of finding a venue before the ring rather than have a ring for years with no move towards the practicalities of a wedding 🙂

Post # 4
3166 posts
Sugar bee
  • Wedding: October 2011

@mispriss1215: hahaaaaaa that’s a good sign! i think it’s definitely coming, maybe he’s still saving up or just being a bit lazy but it seems like he’s interested, so why not go check em out? it’ll give you guys a chance to envision it and see each other’s perspectives on the wedding which will probably bring about some marriage talk on the car ride home ;]

Post # 5
442 posts
Helper bee
  • Wedding: August 2015

I think your proposal is right around the corner. Hang in there, things can only get better (crossing my fingers).

Post # 6
767 posts
Busy bee
  • Wedding: August 2011

I agree with @JennyW1. Your guy is committed to you, and plans on proposing soon. Maybe it’s just taking him longer to get everything in order than he expected. I’m sure he doesn’t want his pace to negatively impact your wedding plans. So… congrats!! Things are moving along!

Post # 7
454 posts
Helper bee
  • Wedding: December 2012

Sounds great!  My guy can’t hide a thing and the ring is happening in December… this past weekend we actually went to the venue we’re intending on using and although it was closed to the public – it was closed because they were setting up for a reception.  It was great because he got to see how it would look with the tables, and frankly I got to see that we need to rent out the whole venue rather than half.

Go with it!  I told him though we weren’t going to officially meet with the vendor until the ring has landed, but that was a personal preference of mine.

Post # 8
6247 posts
Bee Keeper
  • Wedding: August 1900

OooOoOoo!  Do I hear wedding *proposal* bells??

Post # 9
365 posts
Helper bee
  • Wedding: October 2011

My SO sounds just like yours.  He didn’t want to do anything wedding related until we had a ring but we were hoping for next October to get married.  He just really didn’t understand that you need to book things a year in advance to get the venue you love…until we got a similar call.  We actually ended up meeting with the vendor and booked for next October.  I bet yours was thinking the same thing.  And I don’t want to get your hopes up, but I wouldn’t be surprised if he does propose before the year is out. 🙂  Good luck!

Post # 12
3587 posts
Sugar bee

Yahhh!  Hope y’all love it!

Post # 13
1088 posts
Bumble bee

Yay!  Sounds like things are definitely moving the right direction!  Congrats on looking at the hall.  I say enjoy the fact that your SO is taking initiative.  Just don’t question his motives. . .too much.  Lol.  🙂

Have fun on Thursday!  Let us know how it goes!

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