(Closed) What initially attracted you to your SO?

posted 6 years ago in Relationships
Post # 31
99 posts
Worker bee
  • Wedding: July 2013

His absolutely perfect humor, and the fact that he has always treated me like the absolute queen of his entire world from the moment we were together. 

Actually, before we were even together and we were just friends, I ended up hugging him by chance on an outing with friends, and instantly *KNEW* that whoever I ended up marrying had to give hugs that made me feel exactly like that. It just felt so right, and so perfect. Like I fit exactly there and nowhere else. And I actually carried that image in my brain obliviously not making the connection for the rest of the time up until we were together.

So yes, not only is he a fine, fine looking man, but he’s also hilarious, adorable, and understands me perfectly! We’re just so perfectly in sync.

It’s so sweet to read these stories. Wonderful that you all have found your other halves!! Someone needs to do a thread where we can share photos of them *cough cough*

Post # 32
1514 posts
Bumble bee
  • Wedding: August 2008 - Toronto, ON

His charm, his full head of hair and his cute face. I had a major crush on him and when I found out he liked me back, I was so happy because I thought he was so cute and I still feel the same way about him today.

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Post # 33
7897 posts
Bumble Beekeeper

We met online, so the very first thing that drew me to him was that he studied math at a prestigious university. I like intelligence! Then I found out he’s very witty, nice, and overall awesome!

Post # 34
35 posts
  • Wedding: October 2017

His mannerism. I had known his oldest sister for years because her and my mom are close friends, I met him after about 3 years and I loved how he was so mature, took care of his nephew without complaints, and he was shy and polite. He was pretty cute too! (I was 16 when we met and he 17, so the maturity thing was a bonus!)

Post # 35
61 posts
Worker bee
  • Wedding: September 2015 - Laguna Hills, CA

Honestly I was not immediatly attracted to him. Don’t get me wrong I thought he was VERY handsome.. but I assumed he was the player type (like most attractive succesful men in their 20’s who are 6ft or taller). I became attracted to him after we became friends & I saw how much of a gentleman he was & how giving he was to others. He has the biggest heart I have ever witnessed in a man. 

Post # 36
175 posts
Blushing bee

His sexy accent and his smile!


Post # 37
191 posts
Blushing bee
  • Wedding: June 1997

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blt982:  His beautiful brown eyes, dark hair, and confidence…. 18 years and he’s still got it ๐Ÿ™‚

Post # 38
435 posts
Helper bee
  • Wedding: November 2013

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blt982: Great thread! 

I was attracted to his intelligence. Dude is a genius! ๐Ÿ™‚

Post # 39
1409 posts
Bumble bee
  • Wedding: June 2014

We met online, and when I found his profile I was really excited about the fact that he seemed to like TV as much as I do, and that we had similar taste in shows. Maybe that’s a little strange, but as it turns out, we’re perfect together.

Post # 40
1992 posts
Buzzing bee
  • Wedding: June 2015

He has a ridiculously corny sense of humor that I just couldn’t get enough of.  Physically, I immediately loved his facial hair, height and his arms were just so friggin hot!!! But what really got me, was the way he made me laugh.

Post # 42
6425 posts
Bee Keeper

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blt982:  He made me laugh.  Whether it was the way he said it or what he said I was always dying laughing whenever I was talking with him.  We also worked together at a job and he hit on me for a month before I realized he wasn’t just being nice.

Post # 43
589 posts
Busy bee
  • Wedding: September 2015

How genuinely sweet he was, within minutes of meeting him I was taken aback by how generous and easy-going he was ๐Ÿ™‚ 

Post # 44
172 posts
Blushing bee
  • Wedding: October 2014

My Fiance is 20 years older than me & it was never love at first sight. We worked together for a few months & I never thought we’ll even be in a relationship. I had just lost my long term boyfriend I thought would be my husband (he died) & got deployed to a foreign country. 

He was very welcoming and taught me a lot about the country that was going to be my home now for more than 4 years. As months went we started spending more & more time together. He made me laugh so much. He would open the door for me always & he always carried my hand bag for me. He was the kindest man I’ve ever been around & that just made me melt. After 3 months of working together we had our first kiss and everything is history. 

We married traditionally after 11 months of dating & our son was born 2 months later. We are now having a wedding in 27 days time. I’m so happy & feel secured!! 

Post # 45
609 posts
Busy bee
  • Wedding: February 2016

Initially it was pretty much all physical- his muscles and his handsome face!

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