(Closed) What initially attracted you to your SO?

posted 5 years ago in Relationships
Post # 46
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Bee Keeper
  • Wedding: September 2013

blt982:  a lot of things. In no particular order, it was his height, smile, eyes and his dark hair. I have been with him 11 years and he still gives me butterflies. Still can’t get over how hot he is. 

Post # 47
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437 posts
Helper bee

in those first few moments he was so thoughtful and kind and sweet and absolutely gorgeous.  turns out he is still all of that and so much more!

Post # 48
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628 posts
Busy bee

blt982:  Initially, it was all superficial. He’s big, broad, jacked, and made me feel small and safe. 

I’ve stuck around for much better reasons though 😉 

Post # 49
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451 posts
Helper bee
  • Wedding: November 2014

We met online and he was a country boy from IL so that was THEE thing that sparked my interest (after realizing I was attracted to his pics). Then it was his attitude. I still can’t explain it but he had this confidence and yet was so kind and sweet to me. And to this day still opens the truck door for me 🙂 

Post # 50
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Sugar bee
  • Wedding: July 2014

He was the most genuine person I had ever met.  Super warm, kind, honest, and he just seemed so real, like someone I could trust (and I really don’t trust easily).  He had such a cute walk about him and the most radiant smile, and we could have these deep conversations for hours and hours.  In fact the ONLY thing I didn’t love about him right away is that he never made laugh.  The funny thing is that now he is goofy and makes me laugh ALL the time, he thought I seemed super serious all the time and was afraid to show that side of him.   

Post # 51
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Helper bee
  • Wedding: November 2015

Too many to count, but initially it was the way he made me feel safe and that I could let my gaurd down with him. He was military and I had just come from an abusive relationship. He could never lay a hand on me in anger. He always asked my permission to hold me or touch me. He just went out his way to CARE and make sure my needs were met. 

Post # 52
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382 posts
Helper bee
  • Wedding: November 2015

I love reading these posts ladies! Even as I sit here I’m still a little bummed because he hasn’t proposed yet and I really wanted to be before this coming Saturday but these posts are making me so happy and just want to give him a big ole hug when I see him! 

Post # 53
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685 posts
Busy bee
  • Wedding: April 2015

Wit, intelligence, fun conversation!

Post # 54
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Busy bee

He courted me the way I always wanted to be courted. 

He asked me out on actual dates, he booked my Saturday’s in advance, he call the next day and ask if it was too soon to see me again…I never had to wonder how he felt or what his intentions were because he told me, right from the beginning.

Post # 55
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Newbee
  • Wedding: May 2014

Devotion and not being shallow.

Post # 56
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Buzzing bee
  • Wedding: October 2014

omg his smile……. my best friend set us up and the day I went out with her to meet him…. as soon as I walked into the place and we made eye contact, his big smile with big bright white teeth made me melt. Then I got closer and saw his bright green eyes and that did it. 

Post # 57
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Busy bee
  • Wedding: November 2014

We met on a dating site so it  was just how hot he was, and when we met up it was just so easy and it was like we’d  known each other for ages.

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