(Closed) What invites first?

posted 7 years ago in Etiquette
Post # 3
1126 posts
Bumble bee
  • Wedding: April 2011

Did you send save-the-dates?  Do all the shower invitees know they’re also invited to the wedding?  If you sent save-the-dates, then I think it’s 100% fine to send shower invites first.  If not, I’d try harder to get the actual invitations out earlier, so guests can get them first.  Also, if your shower is local, then you might not need a whole month.

Ultimately, either way is probably fine, so no worries.

Post # 4
1869 posts
Buzzing bee
  • Wedding: March 2012

@star_shine:  I was wondering this same thing!

My friend is getting married in June and she just had her shower the other day.  I haven’t received a wedding invitation yet, and I didn’t get a save the date either, but I know I’m invited to the wedding.

I wonder what I will do…

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