(Closed) What is a big obstacle you’re overcoming right now?

posted 8 years ago in Beehive
Post # 3
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11325 posts
Sugar Beekeeper
  • Wedding: February 2011

motivation! My wedding is in less than 5 months, I have a wedding dress that doesn’t fit, and I have no motivation to work out or eat better. Craziness. 

Post # 4
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Bumble bee
  • Wedding: August 2011

procrastination! i have always been a huge procrastinator. right now i’m on weddingbee instead of getting a project done for work that needs to be finished today. i’ve been saying i was going to email officiants for like 2 weeks now and i still haven’t. our apartment is a mess and we’re having people over for dinner, so i’ll probably be cleaning at like 7pm (they’re coming at 7:30). it’s terrible but it’s a bad habit that i just can’t break.

Post # 5
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2313 posts
Buzzing bee
  • Wedding: August 2011

ex-wives and other bullshitters

Post # 8
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2829 posts
Sugar bee
  • Wedding: June 2011

(lack of) Motivation + procrastination + wedding bee = me not getting anything done.

Right now I am in the middle of remodelling & renovating our house as well as landscaping our 3/4 acres — or at least I am supposed to be.

I am also supposed to be finishing quite a few pieces of work (art) atm, but I haven’t been able to find the motivation.

Post # 9
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Buzzing bee
  • Wedding: July 2010

Getting my darn dog to sleep thru the night! She’s 8 months old and since last Wednesday, she’s been getting up at 2:30, 3:00, 3:30, 5:00, 1:00, etc… we crate her at night so she cries and carries on until you get up and let her out. Darling Husband is working out of town right now so it’s me who has to get up every night and I’m exhausted!!

Post # 10
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5670 posts
Bee Keeper
  • Wedding: August 2010

Adjusting to a new life in every aspect. I have a new manager at work as well as an entire new management team who make work very difficult and I am adjusting to a new home and new responsibilities.

Post # 11
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125 posts
Blushing bee
  • Wedding: June 2011

@Lees4308:

I feel like when I was a Bridesmaid or Best Man for all my closest friends I was really on top of things and super helpful and respectful. I’m getting NEITHER back from any of them. Some of them have kids now and my wedding is just not a big deal anymore. ONe of my pregnant BMs (she’ll have the baby 6 months before the wedding) actually told me that if I cared about what I looked like on my wedding day then my “priorites are effed up”. I guess that’s the pregnancy talking. When I found “the dress” my sister and best friend were int he next room trying on prom dresses fro fun, totally disinterested. That’s my obstacle. No one seems as caught up in this as I hoped!

Post # 12
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Honey bee
  • Wedding: October 2013

The biggest obstacle I’m trying to overcome right now is getting out of debt.  Other than that it would be that I need to stop procrastinating!  (And probably get off the Bee and get back to work…)

Post # 13
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5262 posts
Bee Keeper
  • Wedding: June 2012

The consequences from taking on too much my freshman year of college. Not to say that I wouldn’t have worked as many hours (it was necessary at that time, now I work a job where I get paid slightly more, and my fiance and I split rent, so finances are more stable) but I would have taken an easier courseload. It screwed up my GPA and now that I’m in more difficult classes, it’s harder to raise my Psych/science GPA like I need to for grad school applications.

Post # 14
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489 posts
Helper bee
  • Wedding: March 2011

Waiting to find out when our wedding date can be.  The army needs to tell Fiance when his training will be done before we will know the date for sure…

Post # 15
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332 posts
Helper bee
  • Wedding: February 2010

Losing weight. I was pregant for a few months (miscarried) and during that time I ate a TON! I was always starving, no matter how much I ate, and only craved carbs. Everything else made me want to puke. So now I have no baby and a lot of extra weight. I’m trying to lose before I get pregnant again.

Post # 16
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Newbee
  • Wedding: October 2011

I’m struggling with keeping everyone happy. My family, friends, boss, fiance and plan a wedding. Its draining me 🙁

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