Post # 1
When I joined the bee I was delighted by how positive and wonderful and supportive everyone seemed. It seemed like such a great environment, where people truly adhered to “if you have nothing nice to say, don’t say it.”
But I keep finding myself leaving the bee feeling down or annoyed or sad in some way.
I’m finding myself more and more disenchanted with this site.
Am I alone in feeling like things are taking a negative turn? Or have I simply managed to stumble upon the wrong threads at the wrong times?
Bees, help me remember why I joined here in the first place! Give me something positive to think about. 🙂
Post # 5
My advice, it’s usually not super hard to tell what threads are gonna devolve into a mess if you hang around here a bit. If you’re feeling sensitive, probably stay out of those.
Here’s a hint, if the thread title includes:
-Elective medical procedures
-“Is it rude if I…?”
Then it might get you down if you’re not cool with some debate/arguing.
Post # 6
Who wants to take a vote on when this is going to get closed?
Post # 7
If a site on the internet is making you feel sad or annoyed, perhaps taking a step back is wise.
Post # 8
@Rubbs: Have you voted yet? 😉
Weddingbee, like any community, has its good days and bad days. The best way to turn the tides is to try to contribute positively to the boards, not draw attention to the negativity.
And as always, the “Back” button on your browser is very powerful tool. 🙂