- 6 years ago
- Wedding: June 2012
First The wedding date was a problem. Next we have the fight over who’s gonna be the ring boy. Tim’s family flaking out. Last was my aunt trying to decide to go to mine, her niece who told her about it MONTHS ago, or cousin they dislike because their rich… Her daughter is in my wedding party. Ugh! And now this. I thought everything was going nice and smooth til this saturday. I invited my family over for a bbq and my brother was asking if I had my wedding party figured out. I told him I had all my bridesmaid but Tim was still looking into his groomsmen. I personally thought he was asking this for his wife. His wife screwed up her chance but that’s a different story. After they left I saw my brother’s fb status saying “disappointed.” I shrugged it off since he seemed happy.
My mother calls me today telling me that my brother called her depressed. He was sad because he’s not in my wedding and was already telling people he was. He never showed ANY interest and always pushes our family aside for his wife’s fam and her friends. So when he was “hurt” over the fact that we’re not “close” enough anymore, he really got me upset. And some how he thinks my bro in law mike is in the wedding, I NEVER SAID THAT! Why run to our mother when he can come talk to me?? I promised my mother that I wouldn’t let him know that she told me.
I have told him already that I am in charge of BMs and Tim picks his GMs and he has his bros and bestfriend. Why that way? well, I didn’t want the chance of his sister being in my wedding party. I really don’t like her, hah. So I found it fair. I was planning to ask my brother and the singer from his band to do a duet version of the song my girls and I will walk down to. I already had a place for him. I just hope he’s not going around making me seem like a jerk face little sister. By the way, my mother, sister and I have both pointed out the obvious of him pushing us aside, he doesn’t see it and gets mad. Can this be the end of meaningless family drama? I just wanna enjoy the rest of my planning. Sorry for venting so long.