Post # 1
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Helper bee
I am almost 9 months into wedding planning and it was probably the most stressful portion of my life to date. I was SOOO jealous of ladies that enjoyed wedding planning LOL! Well I am finally getting to the fun part! We were designing our save the dates the other day and it was really so much fun! I got excited and I cant wait to pick out linens, flowers, design invites and, taste cakes!
I was wondering what was the most stressful part of planning for some of the other Bees? For me it was HANDS down finding my dress and staying in budget. How about you all??
Post # 5
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Honey Beekeeper
The most stressful part for me was the week of the wedding, trying to tie up all of the loose ends, pack for the honeymoon, and make sure everything (and everyone) was where it/they needed to be.
Post # 6
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Busy bee
Our “stresser” is the $$$$ part! But everything seems like it just all worked out! Can’t wait for our weddddding!
Other than that, everything else has been going wonderfully!
Post # 7
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Sugar bee
This might not reassure you, but of all your choices, none of those even made my stress meter blink. LOL. The most stressful part was dealing with family, hands down. Then it would be confirming all the vendors (I did not have a wedding planner), and finishing all the DIY projects I had procrastinated on.
Post # 8
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Buzzing Beekeeper
The guestlist!
It was stressful but fun and exciting too. Once the wedding was over I missed all the DIY projects I did
Post # 9
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Bumble bee
Guestlist. Hands. Down.
My sister got married 3 years ago and let my parents invite anyone they wanted so I knew it was going to be a battle.
Post # 10
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Sugar bee
Guest list and venue.
Although TBH… it’s all stressful now. There’s so much to do and, as my grad school project is crumbling.. 0 time to do it. 
Post # 11
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Sugar bee
@HisWifey2012:
I was also completely jealous of people who love wedding planning. some girls dream of what their wedding was going to look like their entire lives. well, not me! by the time I became open to marriage (at 32), I began to dread the idea of wedding planning!
even things that I thougt would be easy (like flowers) were hard. I’m a graphic designer and I freakin stressed out so much over invitations and website! and that’s what I do for a living!
but the worst stress was definitely the guest list.
if you can afford it, hire a panner. or at the very least a DOC. seriously, worth every penny.
Post # 12
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Sugar bee
MONEY! Because if money is unlimited, everything else works itself out easily.
Post # 13
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Helper bee
@janie-janie: Yesss!!! Same thing I said! Loll! I was that girl who planned her wedding since she was 10, but when it became real life and you realize all the things I dreamed of were financially impossible it took some time to adjust to that, loll! For example, I always wanted fireworks at the end of the night…yeah…NOT happening, loll!
Post # 14
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Busy Beekeeper
So far it’s the guest list and money…. they are killing me!
Post # 15
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Helper bee
@PinkMagnolia: VERYYYY true!!! If I had millions to spend on a wedding I’m sure my mind wouldnt even be preoccupied with many of the things that it is occupied with loll!
Post # 16
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Bee Keeper
trying to make everyone, (MY PARENTS) happy.
