Post # 1
I can’t stop having dreams about my ex. Like very sexual dreams. I haven’t talked to him in a year. Last time we spoke was not so pleasant. It was after my FI found out I had been talking to the ex behind his back. FI asked me to stop so we could work on us. Ex said some pretty hurtful things and basically ended up saying dont ever talk to him again. But I always think of him. I didn’t want to hurt him but I did. I just don’t know why I’ve been having so many dreand about him lately
Post # 3
Forbidden Fruit Syndrome, I’d say.
Post # 4
It sucks because my best friend is the ex’s younger brother so i always hear about what’s going on in his life.
Post # 5
Sounds like you still have some unresolved feelings for your ex. I gather this from what you said in your post, not your dreams. Just remember he is your ex for a reason.
Post # 6
I talked to my best friend (ex’s brother) earlier today. I told him about the dreams and he told me don’t even waste your time thinking about him he’s a super douche right now. He says for some reason he’s just being really rude to everyone and the doesn’t really have any friends right now. I guess if his own brother can’t stand him it must be bad cause they were really close. I don’t want him back anymore I just always remember him as the version the 17 year old me knew.
Post # 7
Yes to the Forbidden Fruit Syndrome.