Post # 32
:I’m not judging you (at least not in this post 😛 JK) if you enjoy tanning, bleaching your hair, wearing prolific amounts of eye makeup, unlubed anal, or cumshots to the face. I just think that all of these things together often are the recipe for misogynistic porn where the guy’s pleasure is the only thing that matters and the woman is completely objectified and even abused.”
Thank you for clarifying – I was starting to feel a little judged since you were describing me to a tee! (jk) Lol
It’s sooooo nice to know I’m not the only one that dreads getting on top because I seriously don’t know what I’m doing…..
Post # 33
Missionary. It’s the only one I feel comfortable in — if I feel like giving him a treat I get on top, but I feel very little sensation that way (plus I feel emotionally uncomfortable, because I don’t know what I’m doing & can’t go fast enough to make him come), and doggie style hurts like a b!tch because he hits my cervix & I can’t control his thrusts as much as I can with missionary. Plus, I love the face-to-face experience.
We’ve tried spooning, but it didn’t really work out — we flipped over almost right away, LOL — so I can’t really comment on that one. : )
I agree with those suggesting that you should add a poll.
Post # 34
Another bold lady that admits that on top is emotionally uncomfortable! I seriously have never really told any friends about me feeling sooooo inadequate ‘up there’ although I would love to just ask them – how are you moving, what are you doing, what the hell am I doing wrong? Does anyone here want to enlighten? I’d love to have another position to go to that we both enjoy – help!!
P.S. – poll!
Post # 35
Hey ladies- I am trying to add a poll, but can’t seem to find the “add a poll” option. Where is it?
Post # 36
luckyprincess- Practice makes it work. Before I met my SO, I HATED being up top. I couldn’t move right, I didn’t go fast enough, I didn’t know whether to bounce or grind. It was horrible. I didn’t know what please the man I was with. Plus, the man did all the work, so I was lazy.LOL
I hope this isn’t too x-rated…but…
I know now how to do it. I work better with going back and forth, NOT bouncing up and down. Some women can do the bounce thing, but it doesn’t bring me enjoyment, so I ain’t doing it. I also start out slow and grinding and work up to going fast once I get more and more excited.
Post # 37
Whew!! I’m going to have to tell my bf that practice makes perfect! Thanks for the pointers 😉
Post # 38
I hoe it helped. Oh, when I say move back and forth, just move your booty, not your whole body. 🙂
Post # 40
My fave is me being on top. I get off easier than in any other position.
And (sorry if TMI) I found that I got better at being on top when I’d straddle DH on the sofa and just grind against him (like foreplay). I kinda do the same moves when we’re actually having sex with me on top.
Post # 41
Ditto for the sphinx. And sitting on the couch with my bum sort of on the edge, and him on his knees facing me. He’s tall enough that it’s the perfect angle. Missionary is another fave, but only if my hips are inclined up…calves on the shoulders, or a pillow under my hips.
He loves doggie style (he says it makes him feel like a rockstar, and once or twice I’ve caught him playing the air guitar-only for a few seconds, and usually before we get down to serious business).
I feel awkward on top, too. I can never quite find my groove, and I feel clumsy.
Post # 42
I’m a big downward doggie fan- it hits deeper, I get to rest part of my body on pillows, and there’s super easy access for either of us to give me a little extra stimulation. That being said, I do love to experiment with other positions!
And, to agree with a few ladies on here, I’m just awkward at on top :/
Post # 43
This is too funny but I am gonna join in!
I love them all but if I had to pick.
1. Doggie Style
2. Me on top
Post # 44
I love being on top, easier for me to go.