Post # 1

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Helper bee
I love how my fiance is the polar opposite of me! I am over the top, dramatic, sensitive, loud, and a little naive- He is confident, quiet, reserved, logical thinker, and very stern. We balance each other out and couldn’t be a more perfect match. I know all you crazy bees are busy planning the wedding- looking for decor, planners, dresses….but take a minute and praise your man!!! xoxo
Post # 3

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Bumble Beekeeper
@kinneybride: Two very important things:
1) He is very rational and grounded
2) He can *always* make me laugh. Even when I really don’t want to laugh he can always make me crack a smile and I really love that about him.
Post # 4

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Busy bee
@kinneybride: His ambition astounds me. There is nothing impossible to do in his book.
and for you I guess it’s true that opposites attract π
Post # 5

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Bumble bee
I love that he really is the smartest person I’ve ever met. A true intellectual. I love that he makes me laugh all the time. I love how he knows exactly what to say to calm me down when any member of my crazy family gets on my nerves. I love how he is infinately patient, and kind, and loving with everyone. I love how respectful he is of his mom and dad and that he looks out for them. I love that I can say, without a doubt, that he has integrity and would never cheat on me, or do anything to hurt me intentionally. I feel incredibly lucky to have him.
Post # 6

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Helper bee
He has the ability to make me laugh in ANY situation.
Post # 7

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Buzzing bee
There are so many things of course, but the biggest one is that he never, ever, ever gets mad or is in a bad mood. I’m not kidding. He’s always in a decent mood, even when he has the crappiest days. I love that! I wish I was more like that, but I’m not and at least I admit it. lol And we never fight. I think we’ve had two arguments in 9 years. That’s pretty darn good if I say so myself. π
Post # 8

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Blushing bee
Aww. I love seeing threads about positive things about everyone’s FI’s because there are so many negative ones out there. Makes me feel all lovey-dovey. 
My Fiance and I have a 2 year old daughter with special needs and he has been the strength that has literally picked me up off the floor when I cry. He always knows when I need him to be strong and he does everything he can to provide for me and our beautiful little girl. π
Post # 9

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Busy bee
It’s hard to just list one:
He has the biggest heart. He will go above and beyond for anyone he loves (I love this quality about him, but hate when his friends/family take advantage of it).
He always knows the right thing to say to me. He knows how to make me laugh, encourage me, motivate me and reassure me.
He has the most laid back easy going nature but the hardest work ethic. Today’s a perfect example, he left at 5:45am, drove 2 hrs to do a training all day for one job, then drove 2 1/2 hours back to go to work at a second job. It’s after 10 and he’s still not home. He won’t complain about this, in fact, he’ll get up and do it again tomorrow.
He always takes care of me and loves me for exactly who I am flaws and all.
Post # 11

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Helper bee
@Soon2bSuttle: I’m so glad this makes you feel “lovey-dovey” that is why I created it π I see so many hardship post on here and Fiance troubles- I just wanted a positive place for some of us Happy Brides to gloat about our Blessings we get to share our lives with! My Fiance is just an incredible strong man that I can ALWAYS depend on- I just feel so safe emotionally, physically, mentally, …etc in every situation.
I am so happy to see all these amazing posts about your guys! keep them coming! So happy for you! xoxo
Post # 12

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Bee Keeper
I love FI’s empathy and sensitivity to others. He cares very deeply when others are going through a hard time, and I love that kindness!
Post # 13

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Sugar Beekeeper
@KatNYC2011: I think we are marrying the same man. π
That fact that he doesn’t ever let anything get to him, he is also so positive and has the perfect sarcastic sense of humor.
Post # 14

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Bumble bee
Hmmm…..
He is not lazy when it comes to working a job and providing income, which I love, because he is somehow able to balance the drive to make money with a down to earth personality.
He is so spiritually strong, which is something I have always REALLY desired in a partner.
He has the biggest heart. He’ll always stop to help someone when they need it…whether it is a woman whose car has broke down in the middle of the highway in the pouring rain, or an elderly couple who need help moving heavy furniture up a hill – he will do it, no questions asked. And he doesn’t expect a single thing from it.
And for the more shallow things…
He doesn’t mind giving me foot rubs almost every night, even though he has usually done 1298323 more things than I have during the day (including working all day).
He is SO FREAKING HANDSOME. He sometimes still takes my breath away if I just glance at him the right way without mentally preparing myself. In the beginning, I felt like I was in a dream just being around someone like him. It has taken me three years to get “used” to it, and he still gets to me. And he thinks HE is the lucky one!
Wow. This was long and I know you only asked for one quality…what can I say, I just really love that man!
Post # 15

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Bumble bee
The thing I love about him is also the thing I hate about him. It’s his work ethic.
His desire to do a great job for his employer is commendable, but sometimes I wish we had more time together!
Post # 16

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Bumble bee
Well he’s not my Fiance… yet, but I love his generous heart, and how much he tries to make me happy. π