Post # 1
What is your first reaction upon seeing a fit girl in public who is dressed sexy/in revealing clothes?
I’m just curious what other girls’ reactions would be. And, i’m also curious if you think about other people’s reactions if you yourself dress this way (and have the body to rock it)
Post # 3
I worry less about is she has the “body to rock it” and more if she has the confidence to pull it off.
Post # 4
It depends on what you mean by “public.” And how cute the clothes are 😛 But there’s a difference between the club and Walmart at 2pm.
I have certain opinions on clothes… Bras are not shirts, and leggings are not pants.
Post # 5
And i forgot to add that i’m not trying to judge anyone and i don’t want people in the thread to judge other posters, i was just genuinely curious
Post # 6
@ladyamalthea: I guess by public i meant like…every day regular sort of places… out and about shopping or walking around in the street…not necessarily the club . I guess just in general!!
Post # 7
- Wedding: November 2016 - Highfield House, Stanley, Tasmania
I honestly don’t notice, unless it is really ridiculously revealing. For example, grocery shopping in a bikini top and ultra short shorts (as I have seen girls in my town do, it isn’t even a beach town) is a bit ridiculous and I would certainly raise my eyebrows.
Ultimately, what other people wear doesn’t bother me too much. You should add a different option for “I don’t care/other”
Post # 8
- Wedding: March 2012 - Pelican Grand Beach Resort
It would depend on the place, the outfit, the attitude of the woman, etc. Also, sexy/revealing are relative terms.
Post # 9
@kmaemu: im conservative when it comes to clothing so for me. Im not a fan of bodycon dress or ridiculous cutout dresses. So whether you have a nice body or not, keep somethings to the imagination
Post # 10
@kmaemu: It’s more about fit, I think. A revealing dress doesn’t bother me as much as a too-tight one does.
ETA: There’s also a time and place for everything. Revealing clothes don’t have a place in my conservative workplace.
Post # 11
I think I’m already getting my answer based on the poll results (even if there isn’t an “other” option) !!
I don’t want people to think about it too much — kind of just a snap reaction to seeing someone around town who is not leaving anything to the imagination… just generally speaking, would you lean more to positive or negative reaction. 😛
Post # 12
If I see a woman walking around the grocery store looking like a hooker, I am going to assume she has low self-esteem.
Post # 13
@kmaemu: I don’t mind. To each their own. I don’t really care what others choose to wear. If she is fit and has a nice figure, good for her.
No, if I’m confident enough to put something on and wear it in public, I’m not worried about what other people may think of me.
Post # 14
@kmaemu: love this question! for me i think wearing revealing clothes does not equal sexy, but thats just my opinion. when i see girls with everything hanging out i always think ‘put some clothes on its cold out!’ only because i dress more on the conservative side 😛 but yeah its does depend on the place and the fit of the clothes for sure.
Post # 15
@greenidlady: good on you for not being worried about what other people think!
By the same token, i find it interesting that people also like to abide by the rule “dress to impress” or dressing to communicate what type of person they are. Because in that case they are obviously thinking about how other people perceive them by choosing their clothes. How utterly confusing and conflicting.
Post # 16
- Wedding: December 2014 - 13th ~ TN
@kmaemu: I didn’t vote because I think everyone has a different level of what they would consider too revealing, sexy, etc.
If I see a woman who has a nice shape wearing something that is a little tight, low cut (but not almost showing nipple), a little short (but not showing butt) then I would probably not really think anything of it. It would also probably depend on age and if she had an entourage of kids who looked like little orphan Annie next to this mom.
Now, if my kids are around and privates can almost be seen then I would definitely think she needed to cover herself.