(Closed) what is your SO biggest flaw ??

posted 6 years ago in Relationships
Post # 3
5075 posts
Bee Keeper
  • Wedding: October 2012

His big flaw is how hard he is on himself.  He cuts himself no slack at all.  

Post # 4
2786 posts
Sugar bee
  • Wedding: August 2012

I have to pick just one?! Kidding, lol

FI’s biggest flaw is probably that he is a TOTAL workaholic! He owns his own business, so he will always have to work a lot more than the typical 9-5, but I can’t tell you how many times I’ve had to take his phone or laptop and put them in the other room because he’ll announce he’s done for the day….and then keep checking them! I know he does it to give us a great life, so it’s hard to be too upset, and he IS getting much better, but sometimes I (selfishly) wish he just had a 9-5 job.

Post # 5
5183 posts
Bee Keeper

My FI’s biggest flaw is his being overly subbordinate. He is getting much better but there was a time that Fiance would not stand up for our relationship at all.

Post # 6
5786 posts
Bee Keeper
  • Wedding: May 2011

He’s a worrywart. I think he needs anti-anxiety medication. Drives me crazy sometimes.

Post # 7
7587 posts
Bumble Beekeeper
  • Wedding: December 2010

Darling Husband will shut down if I lash out. He’s getting much better at it though, and I’m also trying to lash out less 🙂

Post # 8
883 posts
Busy bee
  • Wedding: March 2012

My husband bites his nails ughhhh gets on my nerves. LOL it’s so minor but it bothers me : )

Post # 9
11391 posts
Sugar Beekeeper
  • Wedding: December 2010

The only one that comes to mind is that he is a big food smacker. Its my worst pet peeeeeve I cannot stand when someone smacks with food. But over the past five years I have learned to live with it & now cannot live without it! 🙂

Post # 10
3261 posts
Sugar bee

He’s too relaxed about everything. Sometimes a bit of stress could be good. 

Post # 11
2702 posts
Sugar bee
  • Wedding: November 2011

Darling Husband is a picky eater. He’s getting better!


Post # 12
704 posts
Busy bee
  • Wedding: February 2012

He’s kind of impatient with customer service workers if things take a little longer than he wants, which makes me cringe because we both work customer service. He’s never rude but for example, when we bought our wedding bands, the sales people who trying to get the rings ordered had problems with the computer so it was taking a really long time. He wanted to just get up and leave without telling them anything. I told him we already waited this long and went through all this trouble to find these rings and I didn’t want to start over so just wait a little longer. Then the lady said they needed to wait for a call back so we agreed to come back in an hour or so. Fiance waited 20 minutes, called back, and upon hearing that they weren’t ready, tried to tell the lady that it was getting late and we’d be back next week.

I told him it wasn’t right. I knew everything was taking a really long time but it wasn’t their fault and they were working hard trying to get things together for US including a discount we shouldn’t have gotten, when they could’ve been doing normal shop work instead. Also we agreed to give them an hour and he didn’t even give them half of that. We both know what it’s like to go out of our ways to do something for a customer only to have them tell us “forget it” at the last minute.

So I brought him back, and the lady laughed and said “I didn’t say anything on the phone but I knew you’d be back! I said ‘Harley’s got this!'” Not only did we get the rings but they were ready within 4 days when we were supposed to have to wait a month. I told him patience is a virtue 🙂

Sorry that was so long, it just really stuck out in my head, i guess lol

Post # 13
454 posts
Helper bee
  • Wedding: June 2013

My SO has an issue with keeping the twist tie on the loaf of bread.  I will find the twist tie left on the kitchen table, on the floor, and sometimes right next to the loaf, but never actually being used to keep the loaf shut.  It is the smallest thing, and we usually just joke about it when it happens (but it really does drive me CRAZY!)

Post # 14
1160 posts
Bumble bee
  • Wedding: September 2012

He doesn’t take care of his health.

Post # 15
11167 posts
Sugar Beekeeper

He is incredibly forgetful, even the important things. I hate having to remember EVERYTHING!


Post # 16
116 posts
Blushing bee
  • Wedding: May 2012

He has a hard time dealing with stress.

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