(Closed) What is your sure fire way to please your SO?

posted 8 years ago in Intimacy
Post # 3
1003 posts
Bumble bee
  • Wedding: June 2012

Ummm. I am just gonna be Too Much Information but the lotus position is our all time favourite. Also just surprising him with a classic BJ somewhere semi-public…like on the side of the road in the car or on a walk in the forest always makes him happy.

Post # 5
404 posts
Helper bee
  • Wedding: October 2010

Oh, I won’t be shy! I’ll bite!

He will always be happy with a BJ. But he also enjoys when I send him suggestive txts to his phone while he’s at work. Or I surprise him by wearing something from my lingerie drawer when he gets home from work.  One of his favorites was when I cooked dinner for him in nothing but an apron and heels! It combined his two favorite things, boobies and food! hahaha.

Post # 7
1325 posts
Bumble bee

Mm yes. Most guys seem to really thrive on a pleasant surprise.

Mine, along with a LOT of other guys, really loves activity in unusual places. Just be careful not to get yourself arrested! 😉

Post # 8
1498 posts
Bumble bee
  • Wedding: June 2012

When we’re out somewhere dressed up and I whisper in his ear, “Don’t change clothes when we get home, I want to take those clothes off you myself”. His eyes light up and he always says, “Oh?” in this suggestive, sexy way that he has. The anticipation following that little exchange always makes the sex that night GREAT, haha.

And of course he’s always happy with a good ol’ BJ.

Post # 9
1325 posts
Bumble bee

@Kant:Oh yes. Guys love a little bit of artful teasing and building anticipation!

Honestly, I get my guy thinking about it in the morning and kind of give him little tidbits by text or little slip ups throughout the day to keep his interest up. 

Post # 10
2829 posts
Sugar bee
  • Wedding: June 2011

tmi alert, but a little tongue action on the balls. With a shower[or regular hygiene] and a shave/trim it really isn’t terrible.

also artful anticipation & activities in unexpected places are always met with boyish grins.

Post # 11
3004 posts
Sugar bee
  • Wedding: March 2010

His favorite thing that I love too is to squeeze my Kegel muscles when he is orgasming. I blew him away with this when I first started dating. Just do it when he’s orgasming and hold and it’ll blow his mind! 

This will give you an idea (it’s just exercises) http://www.mayoclinic.com/health/kegel-exercises/WO00119

Post # 12
1398 posts
Bumble bee
  • Wedding: May 2012

I just turned around and asked my guy this question. He said “Pie”   ROFL  

Post # 13
3866 posts
Honey bee
  • Wedding: April 2012

*giggle* I’m gonna admit to doing most of the things here and, yeah, he enjoys it.

I will admit to sending my naughty little texts (and not short ones either, they’re pretty long and detailed) while he’s at work every so often.  And, yeah, it works…. really really goood. 

I won’t go into the sex (cause, well, I’m not comfortable with that, lol), but I will say that I’ve deliberatly worn outfits that I know he loves to work (including the lingerie) and he hates that he has to wait till I come home to enjoy it, even more.  I’ve also put on sexy negligees, too! 

As for the sexual stuff…. I’ll just say I’ve done a lot listed here and, yeah, it works GREAT. 😀

Post # 14
2385 posts
Buzzing bee

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(Yes, I have the maturity of a 5 year old sometimes. 


Post # 15
1124 posts
Bumble bee

Boobs. The man loves my boobs. Sometimes I’ll send a pic via text when he’s at work.

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