My budget is 30k-ish for about 200 or so people.
Dress: $1800, alterations $300
Centerpieces: $320 (DIY for 20 tables, $16 per table!)
Invitations/RSVP cards/Thank you cards: $900
DJ/Lights for 4 hours: $2100
Flowers (not for tables): $1500
Photographers for 10 hours plus rehearsal dinner: $4000
Videographers: Free (with gift)
Officiant: Free (with gift)
Ceremony musicians: Free (with gift)
Hair and nails: Free, DIY
Save The Dates: Free, emails
Jewelry: Free, all borrowed/hand me downs
Venue/Ceremony/Reception/Dinner/Cake: $99/person all inclusive, so about $20k here
We’re only slightly over budget, and it’s not breaking the bank. Maids are buying their own dresses, Future Mother-In-Law is paying for open bar and rehearsal dinner things, still need to rent tuxes and buy our wedding bands. Also not including the honeymoon costs, travel costs, and hotel costs for ourselves.