(Closed) What is your wedding sanity mantra?

posted 6 years ago in Logistics
Post # 3
2359 posts
Buzzing bee
  • Wedding: September 2012

“You can’t please everyone”

Post # 4
563 posts
Busy bee
  • Wedding: December 2013

“It’s one day — or a lifetime of cats!” (No offense to cat lovers of course!)

Post # 6
191 posts
Blushing bee
  • Wedding: October 2012

Mine was “As long as he’s there and I’m there – it will be perfect!” Everything else was icing on the cake…

Post # 7
3697 posts
Sugar bee

@Sunnybrook:  + 1,000,000,000,000,000… with one minor change: “OUR wedding.”

I also used “Less is more … and more is less.”

Post # 8
408 posts
Helper bee
  • Wedding: September 2012

Is anyone going to leave because ________?  No?  Then I don’t care.

This really came into play the last few weeks before my wedding, but I used it all along to remind myself I don’t HAVE TO HAVE every detail I find on pinterest (i.e. barn reception, uplighting, huge centerpieces, etc.)

Post # 10
3765 posts
Honey bee
  • Wedding: February 2013

“So long as we are married…”

“If they don’t like it, eff em…”

@Sunnybrook:  LOVE that quote about a more beautiful marriage!

Post # 11
2295 posts
Buzzing bee
  • Wedding: April 2013

I don’t have a nice little saying, but a lot of times I remind myself, “No one will know there were so many choices.” When I’m trying to decide on little detail things and pick this font or that font, this flavor cake or that flavor cake, this centerpiece or that centerpiece… whatever you pick will look fantastic because that’s the only option everyone else will ever see. When you have a lot of choice, it’s easy to end up overwhelmed and unhappy with what you choose, but just chill, because no one else knew what all the choices were.

Post # 13
5956 posts
Bee Keeper
  • Wedding: April 2018

Even though Mr. 99 and I got engaged on Valentine’s Day and we were married April 25th of the same year, it got a little crazy, and since we were literally running toward the finish line of an extravagent honeymoon on the island of Vatulele..we just kept saying,


Totally got us through it, and was even better than we could have imagined!

Post # 14
11113 posts
Sugar Beekeeper
  • Wedding: June 2011

Us getting married is what matters

Post # 15
7977 posts
Bumble Beekeeper
  • Wedding: July 2013 - UK

Posted about this before… I repeat this mantra every day…

“It’s my wedding, and…..

I will do whatever the **** I want.

I will do whatever the **** I want.

I will do whatever the **** I want.”

It seldom works, of course, but it does make me feel a whole lot better, because it reminds me that I can’t please everyone.

I started out wedding planning aiming to give all my guests an amazing day. Then I decided that my new aim was just to get through the wedding whilst ******* off the smallest number of people the least amount. Now, I just want to get through the day without anyone beating each other up or having a screaming row, etc etc. But hell, even if they do, then **** them, because: “It’s my wedding, and….. I will do whatever the **** I want.”

Wow. I feel calmer already.

Post # 16
9053 posts
Buzzing Beekeeper
  • Wedding: June 2010

If x happens/goes wrong, will it prevent me from getting married?  

If the answer is no, move on. 

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