(Closed) What kind of a jerk says something like that?!?!

posted 6 years ago in Emotional
Post # 3
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Buzzing Beekeeper
  • Wedding: September 2012

Facebook is the Devil.   Innocent

Post # 4
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Bumble bee
  • Wedding: April 2012

@Sunfire:  This. I feel like I liked people so much more before FB.

Post # 5
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Buzzing Beekeeper
  • Wedding: June 2013

I am pretty sure it was meant as a joke.  

Post # 6
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Bee Keeper
  • Wedding: June 2011

Douche. Let it roll off…he’s either bitter or has a lousy sense of comic timing. Not worth letting it disturb your pre-wedding glow!!

Post # 7
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Bumble bee
  • Wedding: June 2012

That would make me really mad too!!! I would just delete the comment and possibly delete this “friend” from facebook as well. That’s the best way to avoid further drama.

Post # 8
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Bumble bee
  • Wedding: October 2012

Guys are dumb and they say stupid, insensitive things that are meant to be funny. It’s so trivial, try not to be upset about it. Just remember…they aren’t taking themselves seriously when they say shit like that, so you shouldn’t either! Calm down, have a cocktail and focus on the fact that you are GETTING MARRIED IN TEN DAYS! WOOHOO!

Post # 9
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Bumble bee

FB sucks, that’s why. I’ve had that happen (but it was a status of how happy I was to finally be engaged to FI) and I just looked at it, shocked, and then deleted him from my friends list. People really have nothing better to do than make others feel like poo for being happy. Eh. Just shrug it off and be HAPPY!!! :))))

And congrats on your upcoming marriage! 😀

Post # 10
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Bee Keeper

Because somebody is miserable and likes to burst other people’s bubbles… sad and true.

Post # 11
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Buzzing bee
  • Wedding: April 2012

just delete the comments and block him from your facebook wall.

Post # 12
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Bumble Beekeeper
  • Wedding: September 2011

Reason number 4357849396937458735 why I dislike facebook and don’t post statuses.

 

@peachacid:  I agree.

Could it have just been a ill timed joke? Or maybe he was trying to get a rise out of you which is EXACTLY what he got.

Post # 13
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Bumble bee
  • Wedding: October 2012

Some people really have no filter

Post # 15
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Busy bee
  • Wedding: August 2012

I would let it go. He probably meant it to be funny, even though you don’t think it is.

The day before a co-worker left for his wedding, my boss (whos been married 44 years) *jokingly* offered him the money for a plane ticket to go anywhere he wanted, just don’t get married. He laughed, they do the same thing to me now. It’s their sense of humor, I’m the youngest, they’ve all been married longer than I’ve been alive.

No need to get bent out of shape about it.

Post # 16
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Bumble bee
  • Wedding: November 2011

@Sunfire:  That’s what Darling Husband says all the time and the reason I can’t get him to anything on it.  As a matter of fact, he asked me how to set up his “restricted” list so he didn’t need to see stupid status updates from some of his “friends”.  

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