Post # 16
Leave this man now!! Stop saying your husband because I feel that’s what keeping you there. Emotionally you feel he’s your husband and suppose to do things as a husband should. If he’s walking out and making you carry the relationship and won’t get it official you are in this relationship alone. That’s why you feel alone because you are. Leave him elsewhere and find therapy to help you with your transition. Good luck but stop giving a man your all when he’s not in all of the relationship.
Post # 17
The man you married does not seem to love or respect you. Here is what you need to do: Don’t wait for him to apologize/act first. I understand you’re feeling hurt, but right now you need to take action. Get out of your house and stay with a friend, your parents, anyone you trust. Tell them what’s going on. Call the registry office, see if he’s already married or hiding anything there, and tell them you want to cancel whatever you have on file. Talk to the person who married you about dissolving the religious marriage so that you can be free to marry someone who truly cares about you! If your husband doesn’t like this, too bad, he had his chance. If he threatens you in any way, get the police involved.
Post # 18
So he’s an asshole to you, you’re basically his maid and on top of that he’s (like you said) a terrible sexual partner?
Girl, get that marriage anulled and run. You deserve better.