There are so many things that made me realize we were perfect together. We agree on all large things that can easily wedge people apart [marriage, politics, religion, abortion, everything!].
When we first moved in together, I was worried that it would be weird, but it wasn’t It was like nothing had changed, we were comfortable around each other. Our relationship isn’t alot of WORK, although of course, we do put effort into it.
I like that fact that he is dependable. I’ve never had to worry about him coming home late [he’s always called, I never had to nag him to!], or even worse, if he’s coming home at all! I know that if I get sick, he’ll take care of me, and the house. And the same goes for him if he gets sick.
He’s hard working, it was a little difficult at first because he doesn’t have much tact when it comes to dealing with people, and two of the jobs he had were people related jobs. He just isn’t cut out for it, where as I am the exact opposite – I’ve always been in a people profession because people are usually drawn TO me, and I can easily relate to many people. Once he found a job that wasn’t people related, he did very well. I was actually shocked! [considering he is so young, currently 21]. His current job is very laborous, but he loves it! He never complains about having to work .
We want the same things out of life. We want to get our own house, and eventually have kids. And we agree that right now, kids would not be the best choice. I also have PCOS, and to be honest, I’m deathly afraid of trying to carry my own child to term, and he is okay with adoption [this is a BIG thing for me, because I WILL be a mother, one way or another!].
He’s my best friend. I can tell him ANYTHING, and he doesn’t judge me. I could tell him that I was checking out the guy in front of me at walmart, and he’d laugh about it. He could do the same thing, and I would be okay with it. We are content, and I love that.
He’s adorable! 3 years later he STILL leaves me little love notes, sings for me once in awhile, brings home flowers just because. And he’s NEVER forgotton my birthday!
I’m sure there’s more, but there are some of the major ones.