- 5 years ago
This morning, while cuddling with my SO I was thinking of how happy I felt in that moment. And that got me thinking that yes, of course we all love to hear that they love us. But more important, we love FEELING loved. That got me thinking of all the tiny things, the details that make me feel loved, pampered and happy by my SO.
We sometimes have a hard time with our men. And we complain about stuff that doesn’t make us do a happy dance. But on the other hand, most of them do “tiny” things that don’t cost much. Details that make us happy. I was wondering what makes other bees happy and thr nice things their men do for them.
Some of the ones I love…
– I LOVE when we are watching tv in bed or getting ready to sleep and he pulls me to his chest and embraces me there so I can fall asleep in his chest.
– He is an awesome cook and loves to cook. We both do. But when I mention I’d like something and he prepares something fancy and yummy and puts so much detail and effort in it being great, I can more than appreciate that.
-When I have a hard session on the bike and he knows I’m exhausted, I’ve gone really hard and my legs must be super sore he says to take a shower, eat something and he gives me a massage. Without having to ask for it.
-When he decides to make a random stop at the Gelatto place I love because he knows I am craving it.
-When I’m having a hard day or am sad or mad about something and he hugs me, kisses me and says something hilariously funny to make me smile 🙂
Sometimes with life being so busy and hectic we tend to focus on the “bad” things our guys do. But let’s celebrate the good! 🙂
*My dad used to go to the back yard and grab oranges, lemons or grapefruits and prepare fresh juices for me and my mom and freeze them until they were a bit slushy and then take them to our bedrooms for me and mom to sip on them :’).
He also asked me what I wanted to eat after I came from school and prepare whatever I wanted . And sometimes He’d take me to the town’s pool and spend all day there without getting in the water. Just watching over me while he had a few beers. He would not take me out. He would tell me we’d leave when I wanted to. He’d buy me things to eat during the day and I’d get out only when my skin was wrinkled as a prune!!! Lol
yeah. Let’s share what the men in our lives do to make us feel loved and special!