What matters most to you?

posted 8 months ago in Career
Post # 2
4155 posts
Honey bee
  • Wedding: January 2017

akshali2000 :  I got 3 most important things. Location, pay and schedule. 

Post # 3
1168 posts
Bumble bee

akshali2000 :  Definitely other (purpose and being of service), people and culture, followed by the actual work I’m doing.

I gave up a good paying, “prestigious” job at a top school for one that’s less in all of those categories, and I’ve never been happier! 

I live in NYC, and we’re moving to the ‘burbs to be closer to my job. It’s pretty awesome. 🙂

Post # 4
1977 posts
Buzzing bee
  • Wedding: October 2015

5. Location, but I’m also grouping scheduling with that. I work to live not live to work and whatever I’m doing needs to flow with the rest of my life which means NO weekends and I never want to leave after 4:30 PM. I’ve found this balance works well for me and it’s the happiest I’ve ever been, career wise.

1. and 2. are tied. I like money, but I don’t want to kill myself for it. I also live in Canada so it’s relatively easy to get most benefits for free even if your workplace doesn’t cover them. (Currently on the wait list for an MRI for a knee I MAY have tweaked and I use the university dental school for free dental.) I wish I had more to contribute to my retirement, but I gave up on that a long time ago. I know too many people who’ve killed themselves and have fuck all in terms of retirement and only certain jobs cushion you with those.

6. Is the least important to me. My career path consisted of humanities and langauges. I was fucking 17 when I entered university and I just thought learning to speak a few languages would be nifty, lol. I could care less about it now. Can’t speak 2 of the 3 I leanred, anyway.


Post # 5
130 posts
Blushing bee
  • Wedding: September 2017

Hey I’m 24 in Portland, ME! I’m an RN so my main thing first of all is hours (i like working 3 12s day shift) and general work culture! Pay of course is a close third but i would take a pay but for my day shift!

Post # 6
5455 posts
Bee Keeper
  • Wedding: May 2016

1. Other- getting to help people and make a difference in their life

2. Culture and work environment. I also love who I get to work and do life with!

Post # 7
722 posts
Busy bee
  • Wedding: June 2017

Assuming that the job is already relevant to my skills/degree (#6, because that’s the kind of job I’d want to take), I’d say #5 and #3. As someone who has a crappy long commute right now in order to have a higher paying job, I’d say closer proximity to work outweighs salary. #3 because assuming you’re spending 40+ hours a week there, I’d want to be around people I enjoy and generally get along with and somewhere that I’m comfortable.

Post # 9
10042 posts
Sugar Beekeeper

1. Other- creative outlet, variety in work. 

2. Team culture- would say company culture but how the team interacts varies widely within the same company

3. Advancement opportunities 

35/ Las Vegas 

Post # 10
1215 posts
Bumble bee
  • Wedding: October 2016

This is a really tough question for me to answer as it’s all sort of a sliding scale.  SAlary is important to a point but I would take a cut to about 3/4 of my current number for an ideal work environment with a better schedule and more pleasant environment. At the moment I would not take a job outside my current narrow niche but I would reconsider that in a few years once I (hopefully) have kids. I like my short commute but might make a longer commute for more money or a better work environment. 

Post # 11
3443 posts
Sugar bee

At this point in my life, I care most about getting paid as much as I can working a remote, flexible schedule. I’m married, almost 40, expecting our first kid, and live in a small town where my husband has a crazy schedule. My goals fit our lifestyle best. Because of those goals, I don’t care about the people, quality of work or room for advancement, which I certainly did earlier in my career.

Post # 12
443 posts
Helper bee

You need a nice balance of some of these things. Pay is very important to me, but I have worked in a high paying job before, but HATED the people I worked with and was miserable coming home. I can say the same about having a bad manager. I personally think I could be making more money than I do in my current job and there is really no career advancement, but my co-workers are amazing (hard workers but joke around and are great to be around). I have actually met some of my best friends in the companies I made the least money, and in turn have been happier, so I consider people more important than pay. The benefits are good at this company too, so that balances out the lower pay.

Post # 13
1341 posts
Bumble bee
  • Wedding: May 2017

Other: work life balance. I value leaving work at work.

Post # 14
234 posts
Helper bee
  • Wedding: May 2015

Schedule & People.

I left my old job because of those reasons.  I saw my husband maybe 10 hours the entire week because we had opposite schedules. 

Post # 15
3033 posts
Sugar bee

At this point work life balance and basic pay. I need health insurance so that too. 

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