(Closed) What men notice about women first..

posted 6 years ago in Relationships
Post # 19
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Sugar bee
  • Wedding: October 2012

lol

Post # 21
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Busy bee

We met online, so his thoughts went like this:

(online)-“Wow, she’s really pretty…I can’t believe a pretty girl is talking to me!”
(in person)-“Ooh, she’s even fatter than I was expecting!”
(in person)- “Dat ass!”

He likes his women fat lol.  
 

Post # 22
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Busy bee
  • Wedding: May 2012

We met in college and my hair was horrible then. It was long-ish but thin. Now that we have been together for 3 years and I’ve been out of college about 2.5, I’ve been taking biotin and folic acid and he said that he cant believe how much nicer my hair is now than before. So I guess they do notice it, because he noticed that it was getting thicker/longer way before I did! So I am not surprised by the hair/men fact.

Post # 23
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Busy bee
  • Wedding: October 2012

Lol, my lovely polite husband told me that the first thing that attracted him to me was my boobs. (he said it like, “obviously!”) 

So…I think it depends on the guy, lol. I never believed in those “polls” or whatever, because, I mean, everyone’s different, just like you can’t really be like “all girls like ____” you can’t make that statement about guys, either.

Besides, Danny prefers me with super short hair. TOO BAD FOR HIM, I’M GROWING IT OUT!! 

Post # 24
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Bumble Beekeeper
  • Wedding: July 2010

I don’t think that is true for my husband!  But I did have men tell me that is one of the reasons why they liked me… (back in the day)

For Darling Husband it is more like boobs, smile, eyes.  That is his list!

ETA:  I pretty much don’t agree with anything on that list -for men or women.  I couldn’t care less about a guy’s abs and no worthwhile person would dump someone for “getting fat,” IMO! 

Post # 25
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Buzzing Beekeeper
  • Wedding: September 2012

@imageeksowhat:  I agree that polls like that are kinda dumb because people are so different.  However, like in your case my FI was first attracted to my cleavage the night we met, it caught his attention.  (Low-cut top, 36C’s, the right bra, yeah baby, lol . . .).  But my hair is blonde and he said he used to prefer brunettes – until me, of course!

Post # 26
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Bumble bee
  • Wedding: October 2009

Fiance said smile and confidence. 

Post # 27
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Bee Keeper

I actually noticed my fiance’s eyes, they’re icy blue!

He noticed my “limp”,  I was particularly hurting that day, after walking for 5 hours straight in apartment buildings, going up and down stairs (fire alarm technician) . AND what is hilariously funny is that he had a “limp”that day too!

Post # 28
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Buzzing Beekeeper

My husband notices teeth. “Bad teeth, no hope.” lol!

Post # 29
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Bee Keeper

My Darling Husband told me he noticed my legs first…which is funny b/c I’m only 5’1″! 

Post # 30
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Buzzing bee
  • Wedding: June 2013

Darling Husband has told me it was eyes, smile and skin first. then hair. then basically good grooming everywhere else, too…. 😛 I totally agree with the personal hygiene tip. I look around and there are SO many girls with unruly facial hair (the kind that has never seen tweezers, eyebrows to chin hair to thicker upper lip hair) as well as bad BO. I always laugh to myself when I overhear or see these girls trying to (unsucessfully) attract a man. And then they wonder why they are forever single. (?!) 

Darling Husband also says that even if it weren’t for my looks he would still have noticed me if I dressed well and in clean clothes and took time to take care of my body physically. He says men can be attracted to not so attractive girls but lack of hygiene will probably take them 3xs longer to notice the girl in the first place. 

 

Post # 31
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Bumble bee
  • Wedding: October 2009

@SimplyChic11:  yes yes yes. GOOD grooming is really what makes a girl stand out. So many times I have seen the typical “not sexy” girl but how clean is she and how she takes care of herself makes her really attractive.

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