(Closed) What really annoys you about your partner/FH/Husband etc.

posted 5 years ago in Relationships
Post # 61
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Newbee
  • Wedding: July 2015

The main thing that Fiance does that annoys me is that he makes plans, like going to a friends’ bbq, and doesn’t tell me until the last minute but swears he told me weeks before. The thing is, he tells them WE are coming, but doesn’t tell ME that we are going. He has gotten a little better about giving me a heads up but he still sometimes makes plans for us without double-checking that I even want to go.

Post # 62
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Newbee
  • Wedding: October 2015

Wow. My S/o does almost all of these things…the leaving cabinets open, not cleaning the bathroom, throwing clothes on the floor when the basket is right there, and many, many more annoying things and they all drive me crazy. He tries very hard so I am trying to learn to let stuff roll….how did you ladies learn to let the small stuff go??

Post # 63
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Worker bee

My BF burps at the table all the time. In my culture it is very rude to burp but I understand that in his house it was different, which is why I’ve learned not to mind it but my only rule is not at the table. He also wants to do everything together. He will refuse to go to the supermarket on his way home, just so he can come pick me up and then go. I’m not the most independent person but I like doing some stuff on my own and would like him to be the same. He also misinterprets me a ton. I don’t know if it is that I can’t explain my Latin American culture well but he will feel offended when I say something normal in my culture, and remains upset even after I’ve explained what it means. And lastly, I feel he acts like a child when he’s upset, he’ll shut down and pout and if it’s real bad he’ll go outside and sit or drive. I feel like I always have to pry him open so he talks to me about what is bothering him. I love him more than anyone in this world and he has so many great qualities but these things just drive me insane!

Post # 65
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Helper bee

you all have seriously cracked me up on this post!

Post # 66
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Helper bee

My Fiance can be lazy at times. if something drops on the floor he will continuously walk past it like it doesnt need to be picked up and thrown away. drives me nuts!

Post # 67
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260 posts
Helper bee

omggggg and not taking his sneakers off when he gets home and he drags his feet sometimes. omg its pissing me off just thinking about it lol

Post # 69
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Busy bee
  • Wedding: October 2015

When I’m trying to vent, he always tries to say that whoever had the best intention… we all know there are just some people who are genuinely that awful! Like his ex who stalked me, broke photo frames of them in the drive, broke into my car, created a dating profile with my phone number & home, parents, and work addresses saying, ” surprise me with a good time”, sent HIV phamplets to my work address addressed to me, oh the list goes on and on. He just kept saying, “No way….” After he found out she sent out a message to all his family members saying , “this is why this didn’t work” to humiliate him into giving her a second chance and opened a credit card in his name & racked it up over $5000, he started to believe me. 

Post # 70
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Blushing bee
  • Wedding: May 2017

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BizzzzyBee:  LOL I just pictured my fiance cleaning skirting boards instead of the main house and it gave me a good laugh. But I can see how that would be annoying.

One of my biggest pet peeves is how my fiance leaves water bottles that he doesn’t finish everywhere around the house.

Post # 71
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Helper bee

 

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tbreannx3:  lol i actually do that. we have a house of water bottles becasue of me haha smh

Post # 72
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Blushing bee
  • Wedding: May 2017

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MrsBee2U:  Lol Its not the worst thing ever.. could be alot worst. But when I go to straighten up my room and I see 6 water bottles all by his side of the bed and rolled under the bed it gets to me lol

Post # 73
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Helper bee

 

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tbreannx3:  omg i think i live with you!!!!!! hahahah i picked up about 4 yesterday and felt bad, im like ok this is getting out of hand

Post # 74
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Bumble bee
  • Wedding: October 2020 - Las Vegas, NV

Leaving lights on and doors open.

Post # 75
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Bumble bee
  • Wedding: June 2015

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BizzzzyBee:  I tease my DH about it all the time because it drives me crazy, but when he wants me to do something, he says WE need to do it. I have gotten into the habit of asking, “we who? We me or we US”? 

eta: he is also a neat freak, but only in his mind! He complains that the house is too messy until I point out that the mess is his. His response is always something like “when in Rome…” Seriously, dude, you are “Rome” when it comes to messiness! Argh!

It’s a good thing he has redeeming character traits or I’d be crazy.lol 

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