- 6 years ago
- Wedding: May 2017
FI’s grandmother exclaimed out of no where, “We can’t get excited for your wedding yet, because we’ve been invited to another wedding before yours.” Uhh, we weren’t even talking about our wedding, and Fiance is her only grandchild who will ever get married. The other wedding is someone she was surprised they even got invited to because she hardly knows them.. but whatever.
Not really rude, but less than a day after getting engaged, I got a ton of questions about the date.
I mean, hi! I wasn’t born knowing my venue and date 😀
also you’d think that if you were a bridesmaid, I’d maybe ask you to be a bridesmaid?
Yes, but engaged is engaged to be married, not just some isolated state . I don’t think for a moment people expect a venue and date , just a “well we thought the spring of 2017 or thereabouts” or something .
It is not in any way rude to ask such a question . Rude is following it up with “are you planning to lose weight by then? ”
From my sister: “What do you mean you’re not having a bar? It’s not a wedding without a bar! I’ll just smuggle a flask in.” Uh, no, you’re not. We’re having a dry wedding because neither of us drink, and if you smuggle a flask in, I will kill you. We’d get fined for that because the liquor laws here in Florida are insane.
My Future Mother-In-Law asked if they needed to dress up for our wedding. We are getting married at the santa barbara courthouse followed by an extremely nice dinner at a restaurant/tasting room.
It absolutely crazy to me what some ppl have said to me over this wedding lol! We are doing a small 50 person destination wedding in St Thomas and my mom has referred to it as “just a big party on an island” because I have decided that I don’t want to wear a veil. Sooooo it’s not a wedding if I don’t wear one?! She also likes to add random ppl to my guest list.
After I told her invitations have been sent..
Mom: “Oh did you send one to your godmother”
Me: “I have a godmother?!”
Mom: “Oh yea you’ve never met her but she lives at…”
I’ve also had several ppl invite themselves to my wedding. Coworker: “Make sure you put my invitation in the mail because I’m retiring soon and you won’t be able to bring it to me at work.” Huh??
Now that invitations have gone out it has gotten even more interesting…
Guest: “Yea I saw that you only reserved 2 seats for me but I’m still bringing my ENTIRE family. Don’t worry they won’t all eat tho”
No that’s not how this works!!
Well, during wedding planning my mother kept telling me things I needed to do (she wasn’t paying for any of the wedding, and I never asked her for help or advice during the planning). On the morning of my wedding she told me my hair looked bad and when I got mad at her for that, she left (canceling on the makeup artist and hair stylist I booked) because she “just had so much going on right now”
“Why is she even getting married- IS SHE PREGNANT?”
“I never saw bubblyx getting married.”
Said all of my great aunts 😂😂 whatever bro.
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