(Closed) What shape do you think I am?

posted 5 years ago in Dress
  • poll: What shape do you think I am?
    Apple : (31 votes)
    26 %
    Pear : (54 votes)
    45 %
    Rectangle : (28 votes)
    23 %
    Other : (8 votes)
    7 %
  • Post # 2
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    1426 posts
    Bumble bee
    • Wedding: September 2016

    You totally have the shape. You have boobs, a small waist and hips bigger than your waist. You’d look smoking! 

    Post # 3
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    868 posts
    Busy bee
    • Wedding: May 2016 - Cherry Orchard

    Please don’t be so hard on yourself! Your arms and legs do NOT suck. No matter what–your body is there to get you through life and to things you love doing. Any body is a good body.

    Post # 4
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    3281 posts
    Sugar bee
    • Wedding: January 2014

    It looks like you are naturally apple/rectangle shaped. (As far as I know, those are the same basic thing, just depends on how much weight you are carrying.) I am the same shape (which is annoying, because it is supposedly less naturally healthy!) and I looked bangin’ in mermaid dresses, LOL.

    Tell your mom to go suck a lemon and try on whatever dress you like! I ended up wearing an A-line-ish/ballgown-ish dress, but that was just because I liked it the most.

    Post # 5
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    1980 posts
    Buzzing bee

    You have a great body – your mom is a bit delusional and she’s rubbed off on you with your need to call out your arms and legs. If nothing else, look at the numbers for your bust-waist-hip measurements. The bottom line is, though, you can wear whatever makes you feel good. Rock it!

    Post # 6
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    4241 posts
    Honey bee

    Don’t apologize for your body!

    Your shape looks a lot like mine- I consider myself an apple. I hold weight in my stomach, mainly- I tend to not gain in the thighs, butt or boobs. I think you can totally pull off a mermaid! The problem with the app,e shape is a lot of clothing guides tend to equate it with being plus sized, which is not always the case- Kate Upton is an apple too! So sometimes the advice is geared towards looking slimmer/hiding your belly when you don’t necessarily have a belly to hide- you just have a straighter shape and slimmer hips/butt. 

    If you’re worried about the mermaid you could always try a trumpet shape- it’s fitted then flared, but less extreme.

    Post # 7
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    585 posts
    Busy bee
    • Wedding: August 2017

    WHAT?! You have a tiny waist and bigger hips, that’s the PERFECT shape for a mermaid. That’s ridiculous to me. There are no pics of you from the side, so I don’t know how big your butt is, but even if it’s not huge, it doens’t mattter in those dresses. The way they hug your figure, they make everyone’s butt look fabulous from the side. The main issue with mermaid dresses–for me–is whether you have a good waist-hips ratio, and yours is PERFECT, in my opinion. Honestly, based on this picture and how great your body is, it sounds like your mom is jealous. That’s what I would say if it was any other woman saying these things to you. Do NOT go dress shopping with her.

    Post # 8
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    2968 posts
    Sugar bee
    • Wedding: September 2015

    I don’t want to be insensitive here. But is your mom blind? Or otherwise visually impaired? Your body is fantastic and you can totally rock a mermaid. 

    Generally speaking, any body shape can wear any dress shape. You just have to find the right dress for YOU. 

    I tried on every silhouette there is, and there were ball gowns I loved and ball gowns I hated. Mermaids I loved and mermaids I hated. It’s really a dress by dress basis. 

     

    Post # 10
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    713 posts
    Busy bee
    • Wedding: September 2015

    You look great!! You would look amazing in a mermaid style dress! She’ll think differently when she sees you in one.

    Post # 11
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    366 posts
    Helper bee
    • Wedding: February 2016 - Church by the beach,

    From the photo I would say slightly bottom heavy rectangle because theres not quite enough obvious curves to be pear. The general rule for pear or hourglass is more than 10in difference between hips and waist. I disagree you don’t really have a defined waist but mostly quite a flat looking stomach and you have beautiful legs and your figure is still lovely. You don’t seem to typically have the ideal figure for a mermaid but there are all different mermaid dresses try on some maybe a corseted mermaid would work. Try other styles too along with other styles as well because you may prefer a different dress style. I don’t feel like your mum was trying to be mean because she wasn’t lying just maybe being insensitive personally I prefer to be told the truth straight than have someone just lie to not offend me.

    Post # 12
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    1808 posts
    Buzzing bee

    My mom is brutally “honest,” too. So I guess I might get SOME of that trait from her. So believe me when I say: 1) your arms/legs do NOT suck, 2) you could certainly rock a mermaid.

    Post # 13
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    1681 posts
    Bumble bee

    Yep! I agree with so many of the other posters- you have a great body! I think a mermaid dress would be super flattering. 

    Post # 14
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    1576 posts
    Bumble bee
    • Wedding: August 2013

    You look great! But it’s true you don’t have an hourglass placed waist. So don’t try to force your body to make an hourglass shape. That would probably look awkward on you. Other than that – I think you’ll be able to rock all sorts of silhouettes!

    Try to keep an open mind when you first go dress shopping. Try on lots of different shapes. Try not to pin all your hopes on one dress. The worst could happen – you may have to admit that your mom’s right – it’s not the one for you. But there might be other mermaids that do flatter you. You’ll start to get a feel for what works for you as you try on more styles. Good luck! (Ps – maybe don’t bring your mom!)

    Post # 15
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    1908 posts
    Buzzing bee
    • Wedding: April 2016

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    JessRae:  Please don’t take your mom dress shopping with you. Do you have a close sister, friend, or your MOH? Take that person… then latter take your mom so she has the “experience”. 

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