- 6 years ago
hello friends….i need ur opinion coz i am not in a position to take any decision…and i am confused too.
so the story is about an arranged marriage.my parent chosen a very good looking and rich guy for me.his family members also agreed.in short it was a kind of arranged marriage.
the guy came to meet me and we both started chatting on net and talking on phone.he was 8 years elder than me but still i agreed because he was perfect in every other mean.
so our engagement was fixed by both of our families..and we were abt. to get engaged.
i was very happy n excited.meanwhile we always used to hv a small fight n we used 2 text each other things like…”go 2 hell ” n all in anger. but everything becomes normal after some time.
2 days before engagement his sister-in-law and he were both shopping for me.n due to some reason me and him had a fight and in anger mood i texted him that “don’t call me,i don’t want to talk 2 u” unfortunetely his sister-in-law saw the message and she did crap things then.she spread that silly message to my fiances father ,mother and everyone else in his family..then his father called my dad one day b4 engegement and talked very bad things about me..like i dun hv manners,respect for others n all…my dad appologized 4 my mistake..but they said that they don’t want the engagement.
i was surprised b coz my fiance never said a single word in my fafour,he jst was listening everything lika a statue..
n my father ,mother my entire family was embarrased.
on the very next day my fiance called my mom and said sorry n all…but my father didn’t agreed..
now what should i do….shud i marry him or not..bcoz i think he is a coward and not able to take stand for me……please help!! but i love him at the same time i can’t forget the insult of my dad!!