- 6 years ago
Should I fire my Maid/Matron of Honor. I will try to make it short.
Lets call her (A). Background:We have known eachother over 7 years. We have one of those relationships that you can not talk for months then call eachother and pick up like you never went a day without talking. I also have a friend that is a Bridesmaid or Best Man lets call her (B). B has been there from day one of wedding planning. Always asks me if there is anything she can do. Here are the reasons I’m thinking about letting A go as a friend and Maid/Matron of Honor.
1. My mom and I went shopping for Bridesmaid or Best Man dresses one day so I texted all the girls and asked the price range they would like to stay in. They all said about $150. We found a dress I love for $96 including tax. So A came that night to pick up her dress. She told my mom that she would pay for the dress in payments before the wedding. This was over a month ago. My wedding is in little less then a month. I asked her the other day when she could pay and she flipped out on me saying “you cant demand money like that” (I said please pay) “I have money problems right now and not everything is around you, blah blah blah” ( Her boyfriend that she lives with makes well over what I make) & she lives at home.
2. My friend B has helped through this process and told A that she would help with planning the bachelorette party. They were excited. Well A told B that she would pitch in for anything that B bought so B got a room for $500. And wanted to go get games and stuff well A fell off the face of the planet and is now deciding she doesn’t want to pay and keep “STUPID SHIT” (meaning games) at her house till then. So now B is left paying. (which my mom has now said she is going to slide over some money for him)
3. I was at A’s birthday dinner and one of her friends I have never met was there. SHE ASKED ME RIGHT IN FRONT OF THIS GIRL, IF SHE COULD GO TO MY BACHELORETTE PARTY?!!! So I felt bad and said yes. I HAVE NEVER MET HER. Anyways I texted her the next day and said B does not want her there and there is only X amount of people aloud in the room. She came back with, ” All you want is 6 ppl there?” in a snarky attitude. I was like DUH I am not a huge group person. I like quiet. PLUS A is not paying a dime for this party!!!!!
4. She has not asked once how she can help. Nope never has. She just says she is not worried about my future and my life jsut hers.
Sorry there are spelling mistakes, trying to hurry.
SOOOOOO what the heck should I do?