(Closed) What should I do?

posted 5 years ago in Bridesmaids
Post # 3
Member
717 posts
Busy bee

Talk to her and explain the situation.  It probably slipped her mind so reminding her is all you can do.

Post # 4
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4952 posts
Honey bee
  • Wedding: July 2012

I agree, talk to her. I’m sure she just forgot. Instead of paying you for it, maybe she can just cover the cost of yours.

Post # 5
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118 posts
Blushing bee
  • Wedding: November 2013

Is there a difference in price? If her’s is more expensive than the one you bought for your wedding, tell her that you will gladly pay the difference between the two dresses. If her’s is less expensive, you might suggest that she pay for it in leiu of paying back for the dress you bought her for your wedding.

Post # 6
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12 posts
Newbee
  • Wedding: January 2014

Yeah I would just casually say “oh since its 200 and mine was 180, I’ll give you the 20 dollars” or whatever.  Or hers is less expensive and you feel odd asking for money I would just make a casual joke like oh well I guess we can pay for each others right? and remind her she hasn’t paid you.  That’s rude.  Even if she gets offended who cares since she was so rude to not pay.

Post # 7
Hostess
7561 posts
Bumble Beekeeper
  • Wedding: January 2013

@kel1484:  I agree. Making a casual convo out of it is the least awkward way to deal with it. 

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