- 5 years ago
- Wedding: December 2013
So im getting married in december but relocating farther away from my parents home in a few months (adding another 6 hours to the four hour drive now). I decided that for travel ease, i would have the bachelorette party and bridal shower on the same weekend (also since most folks would have to travel as well).
I realized there were three 3-day weekends in the fall that might work but veterans day wkend is my sisters 1year anniversary so that was out. Then i asked my Future Sister-In-Law which one would work best for her and she said columbus day weekend (october). So i told my Maid/Matron of Honor etc to plan for then and start looking at places to book for the shower.
Well cue last night and my Future Sister-In-Law says she has a friends wedding on saturday night back 4hours away from our stuff. She said she would figure it out. Uhh what do i do now?
There is no way for her to reasonably be at my events and the friends wedding. I dont want her upset with me for wanting her at my shower and bach party but i think as a bridesmaid she should be there right? Do i say anything? Do i just wait to hear her solution? What would you ladies do?