(Closed) What should i do?

posted 5 years ago in Bridesmaids
Post # 3
7992 posts
Bumble Beekeeper
  • Wedding: July 2013 - UK

The answer is that bridesmaids are not obligated to attend either your bachelorette, or your wedding shower. FSIL’s friend’s wedding takes priority.

She needs to send you a card and gift with her apologies.

You need to simply accept those apologies, and keep her as a bridesmaid.

Post # 4
7206 posts
Busy Beekeeper
  • Wedding: June 2013

@CGDarcy:  No. Bridesmaids do not need to attend the showers. I think a friend’s wedding takes priority over that anyways. I understand that it’s disappointing when you asked in advance if they could make it and suddenly they can’t (happened with two of mine), but she has a very valid reason for not being able to attend.

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