(Closed) What should I do about my BM?

posted 5 years ago in Bridesmaids
Post # 16
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526 posts
Busy bee
  • Wedding: November 2014

MeandMyLouboutins:  I think the friendship ending part was when OP’s Bridesmaid or Best Man publicly put down her fiance.  And followed it up by calling him “hick as fuck.”  

Post # 17
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2690 posts
Sugar bee
  • Wedding: May 2015

Annonnie89:  I read that part and I agree it’s disrespectful but I wouldn’t entirely end a friendship over it. Maybe her language was harsh but calling someone a hick, to me, isn’t the end of the world.

Post # 18
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526 posts
Busy bee
  • Wedding: November 2014

MeandMyLouboutins:  it’s not just a comment.  The OP also said that this friend made fun of their “chain restaurant dates.”  This person is toxic to the OP.  There is no reason to continue a friendship with someone who has no qualms about  putting her fiance down.  It’s mean and unnecessary.

Post # 19
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1040 posts
Bumble bee

MeandMyLouboutins:  Did you read the part where the Bridesmaid or Best Man said she disapproves of the FI? The OP then followed that comment up with asking her if she still wanted to be a Bridesmaid or Best Man if she was serious about her disapproving her relationship. I think it’s a valid question. 

Post # 20
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2690 posts
Sugar bee
  • Wedding: May 2015

Ckasnoff:  “disapproves. I told her how hurtful and rude the statement was and especially on Instagram and asked her if she wanted to be a bridesmaid if she disapproves so much”

I read where she said her friend disaproves but it wasn’t clear to me.. disaproves of what? Even if her friend disaproves of her Fiance I feel like as long as she can be respectful going forward and not cross boundaries I would give her a chacne. I feel like the OP has maybe a pattern with this friend and she has let her into the bridal party anyways. I just don’t think she should be kicked out that quick. But since she’s offered then….

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