(Closed) What should I do about this? My name was left off wedding invitation

posted 7 years ago in Etiquette
Post # 182
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Newbee
  • Wedding: June 2014

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@JrzyGurl:  That’s what I’m wondering too.  Sounds like she is invited after all, so why create more drama by not going?

Post # 183
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Blushing bee
  • Wedding: May 2014

@HockeyGirl:  Why would you want to go if you don’t even like the woman anyway?

Personally, if I’m not invited to other people’s weddings, it’s no big deal. I’d just take the day to myself. It means your fiance doesn’t have to get them as expensive a gift if only he’s going.

Post # 184
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Newbee
  • Wedding: October 2013

So?? What happened?  Super curious!  I’d have had my Fiance inquire with the groom.  Even if it was intentional, better to know that than to be blind to the underlying currents.

Post # 185
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Busy bee
  • Wedding: March 2017

Wow!!! That is horrible.

Post # 186
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Sugar bee
  • Wedding: October 2013

well the wedding date has either come and gone or its like next week…what’s the update

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@HockeyGirl:  ? has someone asked the bride if it was an oversight? not that you WANT an invitation now, but i’m wondering if anyone asked her?

Post # 188
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Buzzing bee
  • Wedding: May 2014

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@TwoStatesBride:  She did give an update already a couple weeks ago. Scan the comments and you will find it.

 

Post # 189
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Sugar bee
  • Wedding: October 2013

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@sillysillybee:  exactly. she never said if anyone asked the bride if it was an oversight, she just said she was ‘sure of it.’ and the groom assumed it was, i’m just wondering if anyone was ever like, hey, did you mean to leave hockeygirl off the invite? she said she doesnt want an invite at this point, but i’d just be sad for her if shes gotten this worked up about something that was actually a mistake. even if the bride feels a certain way about her, maybe she meant to invite her for her FI’s sake and forgot? or was just being a twat?

if i were in this situation, i would have asked, and she probably would have capitulated, and i would have gone to support the groom and just called it a day. ain’t nobody got time fo’ dat

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