What should my girlfriend and I do?

posted 1 year ago in Relationships
Post # 16
341 posts
Helper bee

Anyone else think this is actually posted by the girlfriend in the situation?

Either way… y’all sound super young and no where near ready to be in a relationship with anyone. (+1 for wtf on the “feed you” thing…)

Post # 17
7761 posts
Bumble Beekeeper
  • Wedding: February 1997

I stopped reading at the “feed me” situation. That’s BS. YTA. Feed your own damn self and stop treating your Girlfriend like a waitress. Grow up, become independent (so you can do your own laundry, feed yourself, pay your bills on time, clean your own home, etc.) and THEN see if you can find a relationship that works. SMDH. 

Post # 18
1933 posts
Buzzing bee

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henry6772 :  Well, I’m glad you said that you want help…you desperately need to see a therapist. The issue is the way you think about relationships and about your girlfriend. 

You have a very, VERY selfish attitude. You seem to have this idea of how a relationship should be and you are very wrong. Your girlfriend or wife is not someone who has to cater to your needs. That’s what a mother is, and only when you are young. Your girlfriend does not owe you anything, you don’t own her. Honestly, you are controlling and abusive, and it will only stop when you get your head straight. Your girlfriend deserves just as much respect as you. How would you like it if she said she was hungry and expected you to feed her? How would you like it if she treated you the way you are treating her? 

Please learn to behave like a real man, not a spoiled little boy. 

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