(Closed) What small things do you NOT tell your SO?

posted 9 years ago in Relationships
Post # 17
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Busy bee
  • Wedding: January 2009

i dont tell him every time he irritates or pisses me off. i choose my battles with him. if i sleep on it and it still bothers me then i will say something. but i have to admit i PMS pretty bad so things that wouldnt normally bother me do. so i have to figure out if it’s what he did or if its my emotions being all crazy!

 oh and i dont tell him how much i really hate his best friend!

Post # 18
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Bumble Beekeeper

Ps – is this what I have to look forward to after we get married!?  I mean, right now we live together and he TALKS about his poos.  But cell phone pictures and actual visits to the can!?  Ahhhhhhhhh :'(

Post # 19
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Bumble bee
  • Wedding: June 2012

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@MrsJules10:  This is good!  I need to work on this.  I’m just one of those people that can’t keep my being irritated to myself lol.  

We pretty much tell each other everything.  I may sneak in a quick trip to the mall without sharing.  ๐Ÿ™‚

Post # 20
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Bee Keeper
  • Wedding: September 2011

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@MrsJules10: Uggh! I totally feel you! DH always picks up on it, though, and he doesn’t get it when I get snappy with him and tell him ‘nothing,’ that I really mean it!

I don’t share little things like how often I listen to the Tron Legacy soundtrack at work or some personal grooming habits and such. If it’s super embarassing (see: Tron), then I’m likely to keep it to myself.

Post # 21
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Sugar bee
  • Wedding: October 2011

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@MrsJules10: PMS is such a bitch. I woke my DH up from a nap because I felt like he was ignoring me. HE WAS NAPPING. haha… so.irrational.

ETA: I don’t tell my DH how much I actually look/laugh at lolcats.

Post # 22
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Sugar bee
  • Wedding: March 2012

GAAHHHH Fiance tells me about his poops…while he is doing them! its so gross! I should not have to tell him to close the bathroom door! I dont want to hear, smell or talk about your poo sir!

the biggest secret that i havent told him is……..

wait for it……

I havent shaved my armpits in like 3 weeks!!! ((gasp)) yea ive been busy with work, wedding planning, raising a 5 year old little boy and school so when i shower i get my legs, my lady parts and my **cough** lip hair **cough** . thank God it is cold in Chicago otherwise i would be found out lol!

Post # 23
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Bee Keeper

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@.twist.: LOL

I don’t tell him things… well… um… like… hmm. I think I tell him most everything, save for bowel movements, haha. I’m sure there are small things I don’t tell him but it’s not on purpose.

Post # 24
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Busy bee
  • Wedding: September 2011

Wow, after reading this I’m so thankful my husband is private about his bathroom results. Maybe that means we’re still in the newlywed phase?

I keep quiet about how much time I actually spend here ๐Ÿ™‚

Also, he doesn’t need to know about my afternoon chocolate breaks.

Post # 26
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Sugar bee
  • Wedding: March 2011

I had no clue this was a poo thread… lol~ that was difficult read!  Another thankful wife with a hubby who’s private in the bathroom… 

Here’s what I don’t tell him:  He can’t sing.  Like, he’s horrible.  He’s in a band, as the guitar and bass player, but he loves to sing.  When we were dating and still in the starry-eyed phase, I told him he sounded like the singer from AC/DC.  Um, yeah.  That was my shock speaking.  Cats were following us home.  I love him so much, I just can’t burst his bubble!

Post # 27
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Bumble bee
  • Wedding: September 2011

i tell dh everything. and i love how this turned into a thread about men telling us about their poops. love it hahaha.

Post # 28
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Blushing bee
  • Wedding: December 2012

My Fiance DOES NOT have a censor, literally, he sounds like such a douche sometimes! But he typically does not tell me about his restroom visits, thankfully! We’re pretty open about most things, probably too much in ways. I’m sure I keep things from him now and then though. ๐Ÿ™‚

Post # 29
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Bumble bee
  • Wedding: June 2012

I think I pretty much tell him everything. Insignificant things like “Oh I tweezed an eyebrow hair today” don’t get passed on because they are just that — insignificant. But he knows all about when I’m on my period, when I have diarrhea, and I even told him about my poop recently because (TMI ahead) I have been pooping out long stringy things and I thought they might be worms (turns out they’re not, but I was freaked out enough to tell him about it and describe it in great detail).

I even told him that I have about seven different Christmas-themed Pandora stations…that I have been listening to at work since August when I started my job. Fiance hates Christmas music and thinks that the Christmas season should be from Dec 23rd to Dec 26th (what a Scrooge!) and now he relentlessley makes fun of me for it ๐Ÿ™‚

Post # 30
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Honey bee
  • Wedding: May 2012

I also keep a fair amount of things to myself – stuff dealing with my business, things I buy (I have fine finances and we’re not combined yet), personal hygiene, how much time and money I spend on my jewelry making hobby, how badly I’d like to take prescedence over his mother… things like that.  ๐Ÿ˜‰

Post # 31
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Buzzing bee
  • Wedding: July 2011

I keep a lot to myself… friends, family, work, school… and yes, personal hygiene! But I’d probably tell my husband about most of it if he asked. We mostly talk about comic books and zombies, to be perfectly honest. 

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