(Closed) What Stage

posted 8 years ago in Waiting
Post # 3
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Bumble bee

Ugh, I’ve been roller coaster-ing between 2 and 3 lately, but just today, I went back to 1 a little when I snuck a peek at some of David Bridal’s new collection. But I’m mostly in stage 2 here lately, with a little of 3 thrown in every now and then.

Post # 4
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Helper bee

3…most def 3…

Post # 5
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Honey bee
  • Wedding: October 2013

I think I’m in stage 3 right now, not uncertainty, but apathy.  I’m not thinking about it much, not worrying about it much, just kind of rolling with it for now.

ETA: I think in DreamingBee’s original post there was an add on Stage 4 which was accepting the way things are at the moment.  That’s more like it. 🙂

Post # 6
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Blushing bee
  • Wedding: May 2013

2, but not as bad a 2 as i’ve ever been….

Post # 8
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Helper bee

@armychica06:  I think men are born without the “jumping for joy” gene – you can’t have that AND the Y Chromosome…

Post # 9
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Helper bee

I’m a 2 or 3 and I flip around between the two.  I too think jumping for joy is our thing, not theirs. 

Post # 10
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Helper bee

Somewhere between one and two.  Ahhh well, it is what it is… oh wait, that’s 3.  I don’t know.  I’m an obsessive mess!

Post # 11
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Newbee

I was at stage 3 a few months ago and not even thinking about it, then suddenly shifted to Stage 1 due to some developments. Now I am a combination of 1 and 2, but heavier on 2.

Post # 12
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Bumble bee

SO neat (and enlightening!) I’ve never heard of the sages before..

I was 1 for soooo long, then I was an awful 2 for a couple of months… now I’m definitely a 3. So definitely.

Post # 13
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Sugar bee

I’m at stage one. I think it’s coming in the next few months, so I’ll just be happy when it comes. 🙂

Post # 14
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Bumble bee

I’m also at stage four I was at two or three a while ago.  I know if it wasn’t for me being in school and not having a job then things would of moved along more.  I’m just trying to enjoy the realtionship and I don’t bring up engagement.  However I am thinking of bringing it up in a couple of days to see where we stand.

Post # 15
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Honey bee

It changes like weekly. I guess I am at stage 4 right now.  I understand why it  hasn’t happened yet (finances) and we have talked about a timeline. But that still doesn’t help me from getting sad and depressed sometimes. Usually this happens about once a month….haha.

Post # 16
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Bumble bee

@armychica06:I switch between 1 and 3 often. Either I am madly in love and sooooo happy or I’m over it…Whatever!!!!!! I’m also a Gemini so I feel that way about almost everyting. I would say I am a happy girl about 70% of the time but things can change with me so quickly:0)

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