(Closed) What to do about friends not invited to Bachelorette Party?

posted 3 years ago in Parties
Post # 2
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Worker bee
  • Wedding: September 2018

Are you having a bridal party?  I find it really odd that people you don’t consider to close enough to invite to your bachelorette are trying to invite themselves or throw you a separate shower.  I would just keep the party hush-hush and tell her it’s not necessary to do anything on your account.  

Post # 3
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Busy bee

Wow, you must be spending A LOT of money.

This is a hard one. If you have 14 of your closest already invited then does this mean she isnt too close and is more a lovely friend. That or you just have a tonne of close friends.

If she is as close as the others, might be worth thinking about her being the last one you invited. Otherwise just be honest and say you have planned it and as you are covering it unfortauntely you could only have a certain number of people?

 

ETA – I read it wrong, you said wonderful friend not close haha My bad. She will probably find out about your bachelorette party on FB or through other friends so whatever you do just dont lie to her. haha Agree with PP, just say thank you but she doesnt need to and you feel very honored

Post # 5
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Buzzing Beekeeper
  • Wedding: Dorset, UK

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sweets2017 :  Hmmm I probably would have made it a bit easier on myself by arranging a “holiday of appriciation” for my close friends and then had a hen do with all that wanted to join. Sounds like a lovely thing to do for your close friends but potentially upsetting for other friends.

Post # 7
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Buzzing Beekeeper
  • Wedding: Dorset, UK

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sweets2017 :  if it’s mixed then that would take the sting out of it for uninvited ladies 

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