(Closed) What to do about MIA Bmaid

posted 9 years ago in Bridesmaids
Post # 3
1205 posts
Bumble bee

Hmmmm.  I think unless you are seeing something you sister is not, you need to let her take the lead on this. 

It’s probably smart to have plan b and always plan around this girl, so that you can be a good supportive Maid/Matron of Honor (and have everything under control).  Other than that though, you need to let your sister handle it.  The last thing she needs is more drama.  Maybe you could say that you are willing to talk to the miussing girl if she wants you to.  Just leave the door open and handle what needs to be handled.  It isn’t fair, but in the long run your siser will appreciate you having her back.

Post # 4
348 posts
Helper bee
  • Wedding: March 2011

At the end of the day, the missing Bridesmaid or Best Man will be the one with regrets. I applaud your sister for not making a fret about it. As for you, I would just be a supportive sister/MOH because when it comes closer to the wedding day, she might need you to help problem shoot for her.

Post # 5
4480 posts
Honey bee
  • Wedding: March 2010 - Calamigos Ranch

That’s so weird, but I think it’s up to your sister whether to be angry about it or not. And since she isn’t, I don’t think it’s wise to bring it up to her much.

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