- 5 years ago
- Wedding: April 2014
My bridesmaids have seemed to disapeared on me or are mad at me for some reason. I have no idea what happened! I have 4 all together and now it feels like im down to just my sister who is my Maid/Matron of Honor. No one has offically dropped out but no one will talk to me and they all seem mad at me and i have no idea why! The first isnt mad at all but shes pregnant with twins right now and already has a little boy so I gave her the option of whenever the wedding is if she still wants to be in it or not since her hands will be kind of full. So that one will be on her. She said she would still like to be but she’ll have to see. The second is my FI’s cousin. She was very excited at the beginning and now anytime i see her she barely talks to me so not sure what happened there. And the other girl is a good friend of mine from church. we were great friends, and she was very excited to help me out and was pretty much a second Maid/Matron of Honor, always wanted to hear about the wedding and stuff. now anytime i even come near her she just ignores me and pretty much runs away right away. sometimes she’ll half acknowledge me if i go stand right next to me but then she’ll say oh i have to go talk to someone else. like really? you cant talk to me for 2 seconds? i know shes been going through a lot personally lately which i’ve been trying to help her out with. i just dont know what to do. i didnt fight with either one of them and i didnt say anything to upset them that i can think of. they both just kind of up and left and wont speak to me. my mom had the idea its because they ordered their dresses already and now we dont know when the wedding is so their mad. which at the time we had a wedding date but due to finacial reasons we had to push it back. if they cant understand that then idk. i just dont know what to do. help!