(Closed) What to do about POP-UP bridesmaid?

posted 8 years ago in Bridesmaids
Post # 3
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1940 posts
Buzzing bee
  • Wedding: July 2010

I guess I’m confused…  is this all about 1 bridesmaid?  Did you actually inform her that she was no longer going to be involved or did you just assume because she didn’t really get back to you?

Post # 4
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617 posts
Busy bee
  • Wedding: November 2010

If you never had a conversation about her about not being a part of your wedding party, there isn’t much you can do other than making sure the florist has a bouquet for her, too. I understand you’re mad that she never contacted you, but you can’t be mad that she’s still planning to stand up in your wedding. Honestly, if I were in your shoes, I would be pleasantly surprised that she’s still planning on it and even bought two dresses for the wedding (if I understood that part right). Maybe you should just answer her about the dress but mention that you’ll need her to keep in contact with you better being that the wedding is so close and leave it at that.

Post # 5
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268 posts
Helper bee
  • Wedding: April 2011

I agree with Mattel. You never had a conversation with her about not being a part of your wedding so you are gonna have to make arrangement to make sure she is part of the wedding party.

Post # 7
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1830 posts
Buzzing bee
  • Wedding: November 2014

Hm…are you sure your messages GOT to her? Maybe ask her why she never returned any of them and see what she says. I agree that if you never told her that she’s out, you kind have to suck it up, especially if you still want her in your wedding.

Post # 9
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1830 posts
Buzzing bee
  • Wedding: November 2014

hm…well then I think you should probably tell her that and why you feel that way. If you don’t want her in the wedding, you don’t want her in the wedding. It really sucks she bought those dresses though..hopefully she can return them? Though it is her fault for non-communication for months. I think no matter what you do, somebody is going to be unhappy….better her than you on your wedding day.

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