(Closed) What to do about this situation??

posted 8 years ago in Emotional
Post # 3
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389 posts
Helper bee
  • Wedding: July 2010

hey, a little confused on the details…but just confirming that its your friend that is the issue causer, not your sister, correct?

Although maybe in the beginning, you should have kept mum over who you were thinking of asking (trying to work out family and friend logistics for the bridal party always seem to turn into a nightmare, especially when you have a certain number that you don’t want to go over!!)

It sounds like she seems to be hurt that she isnt a Bridesmaid or Best Man, and is no longer making your day a priority…I would let her know that you feel HURT that she isn’t making you a priority this one (very important) day, rather than just writing her off and telling her that she needs to step down as MC.

Just my thoughts!

Post # 4
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389 posts
Helper bee
  • Wedding: July 2010

oh yea, if after you tell her how she is making you feel, she still disregards you and your feelings….yea, definitely at that point ask her to step down…but make her know how you are feeling first! from there she might open up to you as well about how she has been feeling.

Post # 6
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837 posts
Busy bee
  • Wedding: October 2010

Well, when you tell someone, “Hey I’m thinking about asking you to be a Bridesmaid or Best Man in my wedding,”  It’s pretty much asking her to be a Bridesmaid or Best Man.  Then you kicked her out because you want even numbers.  Obviously she’s hurt by this and I don’t blame her.  Mayeb instead of hounding her about your wedding you should talk to her about your friendship.

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