(Closed) What to do and think?

posted 8 years ago in Etiquette
Post # 3
Hostess
18644 posts
Honey Beekeeper
  • Wedding: June 2009

I don’t think there is anything that you can do to make her stop talking about her renewal.  Honestly, I would stop talking to her as much and maybe take a step away from her after the wedding.

Post # 5
Member
65 posts
Worker bee
  • Wedding: June 2011

I agree with MissAsB.  I don’t know if there is much you can do at this point.  Maybe she is just getting too excited for her renewal with everything that is happening with your wedding and hopefully it will get better after you are married?  I don’t think your wrong in being upset with the situation.  Although both events are “seconds,” your event comes first and she should be focusing on that since her renewal isn’t for a long time.  Good Luck!

Post # 6
Hostess
18644 posts
Honey Beekeeper
  • Wedding: June 2009

I’m not saying that you are wrong to be upset, but I’m saying there isn’t a lot you can do.  It doesn’t seem like she will change and she doesn’t really care that it bothers you.  I mean you could ask her to step down from your wedding but that might hurt your relationship in the long run.

Post # 8
Member
573 posts
Busy bee
  • Wedding: April 2010

You should remove her from your bridal party because it’s bringing up a lot of issues for her. Maybe her wedding didn’t go well and now that she’s being part of yours she’s reliving it. Do it kindly, but do it!

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